well here's the thing i met this guy at myspace 5 months ago and eversince we have been talking..i never saw him until recently i agreed when he told asked me to meet him...coz i feel so bad turning him down everytime...so yeah we went out and we were really enjoying each other...then he kissed me...then he was telling me how he wanted me more when he saw me..and i felt the same way then he asked to meet again then i said yes but then...that day..i never heard from him again...now i dont know what happened...is it because i told him when he asked me that im not ready to have sex with him yet? enlighten me please!
2006-08-27 14:25:29 · 17 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be. And he isn't mature enough to be honest with you, as indicated by the fact that he wanted to have sex with you that soon after meeting.
Forget him, and cut your losses. There are plenty of other guys out there who aren't looking to "get something" early in a relationship, and definitely aren't going to drop a girl because she's not ready.
By the way - good for you not caving in to his desires. Once you've had sex with him once, it's really hard to say no later.
Use your head and your good sense in dealing with men. And don't believe ANYTHING a guy tells you on line, and DON'T meet him except in daylight, in a public place, and maybe with a friend in tow. Did you see the Dateline episodes on "On line Predators?"
2006-08-27 14:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yours is a perfect example of why you should never meet strangers that you have met on the Internet. No matter how long you've chatted with this person, YOU DON'T KNOW HIM.He can be a pedophile, a nutcase, on and on. You have played a very dangerous game and you were lucky to get off easy. Next time, don't do it and knock it off. It's not an innocent game here. You are playing with your life. Tell your parents what happened and be glad when they show you how much they care about you.
2006-08-27 21:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probally so, he is probally looking for a free freak feast and u remained a lady and not the hoe he thought he was getting, dont worry bout him hold ur head up he was not the 1 for u anyway... most guys on the net who want to hook up are not looking for a realationship they want a free good time. and besides that u have to be careful when meeting strangers what if he didnt take no for an answer? then he could have gotton ur goods and now u cant even find him so be aware of meeting ppl off line be smart save ur life...
2006-08-27 21:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was after only one thing. You let him know that you were not ready for sex and he drops you. You did the right thing. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. You now how dangerous it can be to meet someone like that. Please be sure to have others keeping track of you when you meet a new person. My daughter calls me every hour to keep track of me! She wants to make sure I am safe. Have a friend do that for you, and always make sure someone knows the name, address, and phone number of the person you are meeting. Just be very careful.
2006-08-27 21:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't take it hard.. it is not your loss it is his. He just wanted sex and so when you said not yet he got mad cause he just went for sex. So sweetie don't take it hard. Never have a guy that doesn't move with your pace.
2006-08-27 21:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO U NOT READ OR WATCH THE NEWS?? DO U KNOW HOW DANGEROUS MEETIN SOMEONE ONLINE IS?? OF COURSE HE ONLY WANTED SEX!!! AND HE HAS AT LEAST 6 MORE GIRLS LIKE U WAITIN TO GIVE HIM SOME IF U DON'T DELIVER....LIL GIRL B CARFUL, WHERE ARE U PARENTS????
2006-08-27 21:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Darsh(Say it like u mean it) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he just wanted to get in you're pants, and once that wasn't going to happen his interest in you evaporated like an ice cube in hell.
2006-08-27 21:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely. Many guys are into the 'no strings attached' relationships.
2006-08-27 21:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Like Bugs Bunny on the moon... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he only wanted you for sex
2006-08-27 21:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by quarterless2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if that is the case then he's definately not worth it!
It's more likely that his wife found out, or maybe he got arrested!
2006-08-27 21:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by ftmshk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋