this guy i've been dating for awhile he likes to plan when we will have sex like we will be talking and then he will say ok we will do this thursday night or we will do it monday and then he will expalin every detail of what he's going to do to me.......do guys do that? why is he like that?
2006-08-27 14:17:08 · 24 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's cute! He's thinking ahead of being with you. I would love it if my man did that. I asked him once if he decided if we were going to have sex during the day (while he was at work) or if it was just decided when he got home. I was let down to know that if was a spur of the moment thing.
2006-08-27 14:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes some guys do that, I guess he likes to plan ahead. I am not sure why he acts that way, but hey atleast he tells you ahead and he doesn't catches you by surprise. If you feel uncomfortable about the way he acts just tell him how you feel. Don't worry if he really likes you then he won't mind you asking.
2006-08-27 21:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Yasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex should come natural when it happens it happens it shouldnt be planned that is just weird. looks like this guy is telling u what to do and ur his *********. if a guy can tell u when he demands sex from u and u say YES MASTER all the time then he will know ur easy and he can control ur life. it will get more complicated for u because he will start controlling ur whole life.
2006-08-27 21:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by hotmodelanti 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's probably not normal but sometimes l wish had a girlfriend who was willing to set a time and place. lt would give me time to get ready like let the passion build up for the big day coming. Let him do as he plans it might be worth the wait.
2006-08-27 21:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by nevets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy is that romantic or what? I would advise him that you would like to not work on a schedule and would like to be sponteaneous because if you are not feeling up to it, it wont be a good thing. Sex is a very emotional thing and I personally wouldnt want to plan it like dinner... pork chops on monday, steak on tuesday, pizza on wed lol
2006-08-27 21:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm..This type of behaviour could be caused by and number of things. He could be super controlling, telling you how and when things are going to happen. Does he always have to have things his way? Or he could just like fantasizing about what he's going to do with you. I wouldn't worry unless these little chats become obsessive or he becomes aggressive. Some guys are just different.
2006-08-27 21:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be having sex in the first place. Sex is for married couples and unless i read it wrong...this guy is your boy friend not husband so the sad thing is you've already blown it but my advice to you would be...wait till your married to have sex again..it will be worth it...trust me!
2006-08-27 23:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by mountaingirl88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying ti impress you. Sex should be spontaneous, not planned on some sort of menu or blueprint. It's obvious he likes to talk about it then not meet your expectations.
2006-08-27 21:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't. Maybe he is a control freak. Maybe he is dating someone else and needs to work you around that schedule. I don't know, but it is very peculiar.
2006-08-27 21:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Queen J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dawm ma this guy is such a control freak! i mean sex should be something fun and very natural who would paln out every second? suprises are fun
2006-08-27 21:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋