now that i'm trying to shout my mouth my family thinks i'm i have a talking problem which makes me mad.help me find a way to tell my family that i just don't fit in.
2006-08-27 14:13:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
try communicating better
2006-08-27 14:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well by the way of your question you sound kinda condescending. If you always have the better answer, then you really wouldn't need to tell the world. Just trying to tell your family you don't fit in and state reasons, but don't try to get into an argument about it.
2006-08-27 21:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by Katheraine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all r u a smart a**? well it dont matter cause seems like ur trying to turn a new leaf... just sit them down and tell them that u have this thing on ur mind and u need help. sinceur sooo smart u needing help will make them feel less dum lol.... so tell them that whats going on and some times just dont give them a smart answer allow them to feel smart at times dont be the one with all the answers no one likes a smart a** especially if they are dummm
2006-08-27 21:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a talking problem, you have an english problem. If you used proper english and grammar, people would more likely listen to you for longer periods of time. Instead you butcher the language, and hearing you speak is like insulting anyone with an education.
2006-08-27 21:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you're ashamed of being smart, dear? reveled in it! At least you'll get somewhere, unlike the dumbed down losers. It's rough being a teen. But it will get better. Don't make it worse for yourself just because you don't fit in. doesn't mean you're a freak. It just means that you beat to a different drummer. Enjoy life!
2006-08-27 21:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see where your problem lies. Read your question for starters...is that how you talk? It's not even a sentence, sorry if that sounds rude. Try calmly sitting down with your family and explainging your feelings rationally instead of trying to "shout your mouth".
2006-08-27 21:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your family must be really dumb if you are the smartest person in it. I read what appears to be an encrypted question several times and I am lost. What the hell language are you trying to write.
2006-08-27 21:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by bonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we can not chose our family, it's good to hear you think your smart,,shows confidence, sit and talk with whom ever you feel closes to in your family. Don't worry about not being like them it's a great thing to be different so go ahead and be your self.
2006-08-27 21:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda understand it's like your family "picks" on you so you be quiet and then they think somethings wrong with you. just explain to them that it hurts you when they think you have a talking problem and that they should just except you and love you for who you are! and if you do have a talking problem tell them that they shouldn't be mean to you because you probably inherited it from one of them! good luck!
2006-08-27 21:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God gave us two ears and one mouth. so we can listen more than we talk...take that into consideration...it's ok to express ur opinions but not alllll the time...and u can't always have the better answer cause u didn't even spell answer right....
2006-08-27 21:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Darsh(Say it like u mean it) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be sad
Just tell them that you love them and that you are trying hard to fit in with them
Talking about it always helps!
2006-08-27 21:17:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋