We are both in our mid twenties, and have hung out in group situations a few times, and recently went out on a dinner date. (It was awesome!!) I'm nervous of course, but I know he is too.... He is the brother of a friend of mine, so I unofficially know that he thinks I'm great.
What can I do or say that will make things more comfortable and fun....
We both tend to get nervous and laugh alot around eachother.... we are both interested, but I guess since it's still new, we're just a couple of dorks about the whole thing!!!
How can we feel more comfortable, and is it too soon to tell him flat out that I am interested? And since he kissed me goodnight after our date, can I initiate this time, or is that too forward??
(we've been on group dates 3 times, and had an offical date once, all over a period of a month.)
2006-08-27 14:06:25 · 8 answers · asked by smarty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just relax be yourself ,,i think we complicate things more by trying to plan things out like what to say how to act ,,if you both are interested in each other just allow it to run its course ,,if you feel comfortable with making a move to kiss him then why not men dont always have to initiate it ,,just have fun !
2006-08-27 14:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think since you already had the first goodnight kiss, and he has asked you out again, you can bet on a little more smooching on this date, and future ones. Nerves will subside in time, just be yourself! Don't rush, take your time, let him make the moves, and everything will fall into place.
2006-08-27 21:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by ladyofthehouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him enough, then go with the flow.
BUt if you don't ...don't stay in a house alone with him. Get some companion or friends
sometimes guys tend to be nice in public, mean and violent in private
just be careful ^_^
2006-08-27 21:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by chiayin20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you could initiate the kiss... He'd probably love it!
2006-08-27 21:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out dancing- fun and you don't have to talk much.
2006-08-27 21:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must know your feeling about that guy.if you love him, just go on! but if you only want to be his friend tell him early.
2006-08-27 21:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sooooo cute! Be YOURSELF ! u dont want to be someone your not becaues he wont like you then ...Smile!
2006-08-27 21:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by TriNa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow or you will bure it up be for it start
2006-08-27 21:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by ace_71385 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋