ok i hate highscool drama but last year i went out with this guy for about a year and he cheated on me 2 times and i took him bak the first time and the second time was like 2 months ago and i dont speak to him much anymore until just a week ago and i relized for some odd reason i still like him and he admitted all the wrong things he has done and bla bla bla and idk if i should take him bak so i need some opions from peoplez should i or shouldnt i take him bak
2006-08-27 13:58:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dining Out ➔ United States ➔ Austin
I think that you probably have received several NO WAYS! But having been there, it's not so easy. No matter what anyone tells you, you are going to do your own thing and act on your feelings as you see fit. I am glad to see you are seeking opinions. My first reply was, ok we all know this guy is a loser and he's going to do this again and everyone knows it, he's going to hurt this girl again if she takes him back. Most of us have lived and learned and would like to spare you the pain...But your going to do what you feel in your heart. I didn't listen, I went back, I got hurt, I lived, I learned. I'm still here and you will be to, no matter what you decide. I would suggest that if you do take him back, you do it with eyes wide open. You can't live in a relationship where you doubt his every move, but you can keep your eyes open for the signs that you missed before. Now you know what to look for. If he fails you again, you went in with your eyes wide open and and you will be able to deal a whole lot better with the end result. Good luck, no matter what you decide.
2006-08-27 16:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Cherie Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, once a guy cheats on you they will always do it. This guy may be remorseful for what he did to you in the past, but (more then likely) if you two get back together, in time he will cheat again. No matter how much you care for him right now, it will be so much better for you and your precious heart if you let him be. Don't let a sorry guy like that tramble on your heart. Give yourself to someone who appreciates you. I wish you the best :)
2006-08-27 14:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by scornell_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life for yourself hon and DO NOT go back with the cheat. You really need a dose of SELF ESTEEM. You are still in high school so don't waste your time on a loser.
2006-08-27 15:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by jjoct18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A DUDE ONLY SAYS HE IS SORRY, ONLY TO SAY HE IS SORRY AGAIN!!! Whats goes around comes around, leave him alone, go on about your busy, trust me when I say, I was dating this guy for almost 3yrs and he was cheating on me since day one, I broke up with him he wanted me back, I told him no...long story short he got two other girls pregnant paying child support. what im trying to say is that some of them dont know what they got until its gone. There is other fish in the sea, so throw that one right back!!! Two wrongs dont make a right...
2006-08-27 17:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by highyellow83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to boot your anger themes you are going to be able to desire to end regretting lots, how are you meant to enhance from those previous relationships by using residing interior the previous? I definitely have self belief that inspite of your issues in case you stumbled on the single the suitable female for you, it would be lots extra undemanding to alter and you wouldnt enable your anger take over for the reason which you comprehend it would lead to dropping that guy or woman. have been you even easily certainly in love with those previous females? I easily have themes and so does each and every physique else, yet enable me make it easier to comprehend, if i stumbled on that guy that became made for me, i might replace devoid of him even having to ask. end focusing on your issues and concentration on the solid issues approximately you, the subsequent time you get with a woman if she is physically powerful for you, she can renowned to herself that niether she nor you're perfect and not in elementary terms leave you clarification on your themes.
2016-09-30 01:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you can see everybody agrees, get rid of the asshole, you say you don't lik drama, but if you go back to him then you do like drama. You are young and will have plenty of oppurtunities to date and find what kind of man you like, and stick with it.
2006-08-27 14:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Are you really that blind. If he cheated on you twice then obviously he's too immature to have a relationship and usually that never changes. He will probably end up doing it again.
2006-08-27 14:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he cheated on you twice already? Run!! Get outta there. Save yourself from the pain while you still can.
2006-08-28 05:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - wrong category
Second - where is the punctuation?
Third - spell out the word two
Fourth - learn to spell
2006-08-28 01:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. You'll find someone better. If you take him back you'll always be wondering whether he's cheating on you!
2006-08-27 14:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by ftmshk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋