any good suggestions how to meet people? i'm sure there's a handful of girls in this city who are in the same situation as me. I just got out of a relationship and i'm kinda going stir crazy in my house. I need human interaction. maybe someone to watch a movie with or just cruise aroun town or something
2006-08-27 13:43:29 · 5 answers · asked by imjustsotired 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls don't like men anymore dude. i am sorry to say they are all lesbians.
2006-08-27 13:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by justin72185 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I left this message to somebody else and I think it fits for you too.
"U should start going out. Go places you've never been, shops youve always wanted to go in and talk with people. Ask the shop owners do they know about any events coming up or has anyone left any pamphlets at the counter (go to the library people usually leave them there) find an event.. no find A WEEKS WORTH of events and get yourself a tiny makeover. It can be a new outfit, new pair of shoes , new hair cut or just a nice shave. But do somethng that makes you FEEL attractive, put on a smile and GO TO THOSE EVENTS!
When you get there, dont be afraid to mingle. Just strike up conversations with people. If you're not familiar with the event just walk over to a pretty girl and ask her if shes been to one before? If shes like no, then say my first time too. You look like you got it more figured out than I do, mind if I join you? If she says yes say, good I hope u dont mind if I tag along because I can get lost. Im trying to learn new things and this seemed like a good idea.
If you've been to an event before go up and say hey are you enjoying yourself? Have you ever come to one of these before? Theres always something new, I could show you around... no trouble at all.. my pleasure.
People go to events to meet people, so dont be shy. Being a gentleman will insure that you dont get scoffed at.
If that doesnt work, then you can actually start taking the internet seriously. Nobody wants to admit that they date online, but come on the internet is the lifeforce of this era. Who doesnt have the internet? And Everybody and their mom has myspace. Get on some dating sites.. (more than 1 or 2) and start making accts.
Make one profile with a funny username and a nice pic and post it to all of the sites with ONE yahoo acct. Play around on the site, sending free flirts and msgs (if they allow it) get in on the chat feature if they have it. Meet people from many different places, but try to bond with locals. Exchange IMs and start chatting it up. After a week or so or when u two are ready, ask to meet up somewhere where she can feel safe. Then go out. Try to meet alot of people and weed out who u dont like then, arrange a new date for every night for about a week or two. Even reasonable travel is ok, a short road trip could have you meeting even more new people! Put on your best smile and be yourself. You could have a girlfriend in no time!
Try finding personal sites with Chat if you can, but turn nothing down. Except Yahoo Chat. No offense but Yahoo Chat is a joke. Full of bots and pervs. Use their other venues like groups, personals, etc... wherever a bunch of people linger (much like answers, but dont come out begging for a gf, just msg people who make u laugh).
Last suggestion is go somewhere! Leave your local town, go on a road trip and meet new people! Tell them where you're from. People are usually kind and interested in tourists. You might meet someone worth traveling to see every other weekend! Talk about something to look forward to!!
Dont feel bad everybody gets depressed and starts to feel useless. This usually happens when life gets redundant and we start to sacrifice things that make us feel good for things that seem important. Sooner or later we forget how important those fun things were and lose touch. It seems like its a battle to get back in the dating game, but its really not. You just gotta put urself out there! Let those women know you're there!
You have to make your own excitement. When you get depressed dont think you need a gf to make it all go away, think you need some activity! The gf will come along naturally! You'll be having fun and we LOVE men who look like they can show us a good time and have a zest for life! "
2006-08-27 15:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by LN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out, yahoo answers isn't a way to meet people.
2006-08-27 13:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your friends to set you up
or
go to a club
2006-08-27 13:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.... look.
2006-08-27 13:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by spock78765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋