best time to have sex. She says she's ready sometimes, and at other times she doesnt know if she is ready. When would it be the best time for both of us to have sex together. Should we wait, or should we get it over with.
2006-08-27 13:41:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first off are you both of age? and if so time will only tell. dont rush she may not be ready.
2006-08-27 13:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by beatiful one 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have asked a great question. I commend you for your outright thoughtfulness. If she is a virgin and you like her as much as you sound you do. I hope you respect her that much to. Having sex with your girlfriend in not about sex. It is about love and understanding. If she has any doubts about having sex before she is ready then why push it. You two are not in a race and as you get older, you might understand that the real winners are the ones that wait the longest.
I know that it is hard at your guys age but are you sure you want that big responsibility on your head? Are you sure you are really ready for the commitment, the responsibility that having sex with a girl really has. I know that you have heard great stories from your friends about having sex. And sex is great to have with someone you are in love with. But if you and , or your partner is not ready to give up the one thing that really defines a your guys, inner most feelings, it should not be giving up just because you or she wants to give it up.
What is wrong waiting for a longer period like until you are really wanting to be married, or even after marriage. There is really know reason to hurry up and get it over with. A virgin is not a decease. Your girl friend is not sure then you have to be a man and go along with her decision. That is real love.
So think about it. Talk about it. If you have to ask for others opinions then you should wait. You both will know the time, and when it is right. Especially her.
Good luck
2006-08-27 13:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would personally say wait until marriage. I know it sounds old fashioned, but sex gets you very attached and if the relationship ends, it's extremelly hard to get over it.
Sex will also make you confused as to wether you love that person or if you're just attached because of the physical intimacy.
Only a couple of the few reasons why I believe sex is meant for after marriage...
2006-08-27 13:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by OOlala! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex blinds a person to feelings and faults of the other person. It is meant for marriage only. Anytime before that is messing with nature and causing feelings before they are ready to surface. Dont pressure her. Sex is NEVER something to GET OVER WITH!!
2006-08-27 13:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God bless her for not giving her virginity away in a casual relationship!!! Good for her!
Wait and see if you want to marry her. If you decide that you love her enough to commit to her for the rest of your life, then wait until your wedding night to make love to her. Her virginity is a precious gift that she should save for her husband on their wedding night.
Please do not pressure or coerce her into doing something she doesn't want to do. And respect her and her decision. God bless!
2006-08-27 13:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. For the love of God wait. Too many kids having sex outside of marriage and going through too much crap and pain. Save yourselves the pain and hassles wait till marriage.
2006-08-27 13:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do it when she is ready and respect her.
Don't do it out of sex. Do it with passion and love and it helps her to get rid of the anxiousity :)
I guess she is nervous about it ^^
Good luck
2006-08-27 14:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by chiayin20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE BEST TIME IS WHEN U BOTH ARE COMFORTABLE WITH ONE ANOTHER AND THE SITUATION DONT MAKE PLANS TO HAVE SEX LET THE CARDS FALL AS THEY MAY IN OTHER WORDS JUST GO WITH THE FLOW AND BESIDES WHAT S THE RUSH
2006-08-27 13:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by MISS THANG 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you should just ait when she is ready she will know and she qill approach her dont force her or makwe her think shes ready she will regret it and seems your pretty decent guy ifd you have waited already top be with her
2006-08-27 13:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is SURE she is ready and not before.
2006-08-27 13:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by notmuchanextrovert 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋