I'm Bisexual,and I'm 13 almost 14 so how do i tell my parents?

Question

i said it all in the question.

Answer 1

at 13 or 14 you don't even know what you are

Answer 2

I see no reason for you to tell them you are bisexual at your age. Wait a few years and see what happens. You may wind up deciding you prefer men and settle down to raise a family....then all of the stress you caused would have basically been for nothing. If that doesn't happen, there will be plenty of time to address the issue later.

In the meantime, feel free to stand up for gay rights whenever the subject comes up in your household. That way if the conversation ever has to happen, your parents will not be as shocked.

Answer 3

As a parent, I believe a "what if..." approach would likely be better than an "I'm bisexual" decleration. It will likely lead to a more open, productive conversation. Your parents know that you are experiencing sexual impulses at your age. They would probably even be happy to know that you are willing to discuss the feelings with them and ask for advice. At any rate, if you believe you are bi-sexual, your parents need to know. I believe you are right to want to tell them. They know a lot more about life and sex than you do at your age. You could benefit from their knowledge and life experience.

Answer 4

At your age, you will find admirable qualities in both genders. Your hormones are in turmoil for several years and you need to not be engaging in any sexual activities.
Homosexual relationships are against God's laws for all humanity. You need to make a decision not to act on your desires that lean towards either gender.
Grow up, abstain, develop self control and become the wonderful human you can be in reaching your full potential.
Don't destroy you chance of this by engaging in sex at a young age, before you have fullly developed to adulthood.
If you have concerns have a talk to your studen counseler or some other professional adult, like your family doctor. By all means discuss your feelings with your parents, it is their responsibility to guide you through your adolescent years and support you and love you unconditionally. Have a wonderful life, don't damage your future before it begins..

Answer 5

very carefully.

this is a very delicate situation to be in.

first off, let me give you a big standing ovation. it's hard to realize that you have these types of feelings at such a young age. but, in the long run, it makes it easier because you'll be open and more tolerant of people who might not agree with your lifestyle as opposed to those who have yet to come out.

*claps*

but, it must be dealt with with extreme care and honesty. parents don't want to know these things about their kids, especially at this age.

just sit them down and lay out the facts. and, promise them that you'll be the best person you can be.

they may be shocked and resentful or even feeling guilty for awhile but, they should still love and respect you for it.

Answer 6

you could always say" my friend is bisexual and she asked me for advice on how to tell her parents and im asking you becasue your parents what do you think she should do " and than see there reaction you might want to wait a little too because this might be new to you and you should get used to it before everyone else dose ! and most importanly make sure your comfortable with yourself and am happy because all that matters is how you feel, dont let other people make your desion for you !

Answer 7

finding someone of the same sex to be attractive doesnt make you bi-sexual, however if you truly feel that you are i think that you should give yourself some time and find out for sure, at your age your body is going through alot of changes and hormonal upheaval, wait a couple of years and if you still feel the same way, tell your parents as honestly and diplomatically as possible...

Answer 8

Have you ever had sex? I hope not.

You are still too young to know what your orientation is. Talk to your parents and/or pastor to help you understand.

You are going through a lot of feelings you have never experienced before. Some is mere infatuation. Give yourself time to figure out who you are.

Answer 9

well im 12 and kinda goin thriugh the same thing the only person who knows im bisexual is my boyfriend i worry about it my brothers and sisters would make fun of me and i have already put my family through hell so i am not telling them untill i am out of the house so i wont have to deal wiht the choas if you decide to tell them good luck and i hope they accecpt you for who your are cuz my family doesnt and i wont dare to give them another reason to dis like me

Answer 10

don't tell anything yet.
you have to be sure, cause you don t want to screw everything for nothing.
and if ever you have to say something say it with your attitude not with words, or say it indirectly.
for eg: ''that guy is hot (if you are a guy)''
or: ''there is nothing wrong with being bisexual''
anyway, i don t know much about being bisexual but i hope that you ll find your way :p