All I would like is to meet a down to earth sort of girl with her head screwed on, whom doesnt drink, has a career mind, keeps healthy and respects herself, dresses casually and not particularly fashionable crazed but looks good in a dress and heels - does this person exist cus i cant find her for the life of me
2006-08-27 13:12:49 · 36 answers · asked by rampant_rocky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you're looking in the wrong places
2006-08-27 13:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is, it takes 2 to `tango' and in a rough world; where so many changes have become `vogue' and it's a fact, you might have to inspect your own expectations up against the reality of `today'! But, are you certain you are doing the right sort of dance yourself?? I know any number of really nice, well dressed, head on the right way round type of girls via my own daughter and friends, and have to wonder if you have a viewpoint that is interfering with your `view'! And sometimes, just getting to know someone, is a step forward in itself; the outer package is not always what is important!
2006-08-27 13:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Bluebells21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to write that up as a singles ad and put it on one of the dating sites. There are good people out there, but you may be looking for the Barbie doll type. Realize that good women may not be a 10 but rather a 6 or 7. Look at the person inside the body before you judge them.
2006-08-27 13:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is certainly to much ask. Don't searching for a woman by ticking her attributes off on some sort of list. Just go about your daily business and if you see a woman you are physically attracted to then take a chance and ask her out and you'll find out if you get on well or not with her.
Is her career and wearing heels really as important as sharing things in common and making each other laugh?....i think not.
2006-08-27 13:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by british stud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, they're out there. They smile a lot and have a great sense of humour and are cordial and kind and a joy to be around and one day one of them will smile at you. What do you think of that? That would be nice... and you won't know what to do. If you are down to earth yourself you will eventually meet someone who is just the same way, pulling no punches, no intimidation, no smart remarks, no put downs and other rudeness. Yes, there are women out there who still respect and love men. They often marry them, and take good care of their man for the rest of his life, too. Fortune will smile upon you, and you will find such a lovely creature and I hope your life will be very happy from there on. All you have to do is to relax a little bit and keep your eyes peeled, just like you are doing. Best to you, from Chris!
2006-08-27 13:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are so focused in finding the woman that you describe that you are not noticing other interesting girls around you.
All human beings come in "packages", so concentrate in finding the "package" that suits you better. Many women have the qualities you are looking for, but not necessarily all of them can be seen at first sight. Take the chance go get to know more the next girl you feel attracted to and you'll probably surprise yourself with the result.
2006-08-27 13:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lila 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL...yes, it's too much to ask. It's also too much to ask to find a guy who's got a steady job, doesn't live with his parents, is willing to commit to more than breakfast, and who has the emotional maturity above that of an eight year old. It'd be nice if he could decently dress himself also, but I'm not holding my breath on that.
Sorry, don't mean to sound bitter or to slam men, but I feel your pain, hon. I just want someone sane that treats me well and it sounds as if that's what you want also. You'd think that wouldn't be so hard to find, huh? Good luck.
2006-08-27 15:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the sort of person who would attract a woman with all of those criteria?
I think you may want to trim it down a little, maybe pick the top three and be a little flexible in the rest.
Just a suggestion.
2006-08-27 13:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be setting your expectations to high. I know it is what is on the inside that is suppose to count. Maybe you are looking for someone way out of your league. Please do not take that the wrong way. There is more to a person, then looks, career and the way they dress........ take a step down from your pedestal and you may find what your looking for.
2006-08-27 13:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that person do exist all I wont is a man that don't drink. Likes to dress thug out sometimes but not all the time. Like to be with me and dont drunk or smoke.But it seems like that is hard to find.
2006-08-27 13:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by kita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just give up. Even if you do find one like that, she will gain about 75 pounds and start wearing sweats as soon as you marry her. Avoid the stress and go ugly early.
2006-08-27 13:24:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋