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ok well sometimes i feel like my boyfriend doesn't like me.... how can i tell if he really does or not without asking him.... oh yeah and that question about the lesbo porn i didn't ask that i swear i don't know who did but it really wasnt me

2006-08-27 13:09:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

Why are you in a relationship if you can't be open and honest, you can't even ask him if he likes you. And if you have to ask, he probably doesn't

2006-08-27 13:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0 1

Jessica just because the guy isn't into you 100% of the time doesn't mean he's not in love with you he may be feeling frustrated for any number of reasons and you are the one that's nearest to him so you feel the fallout from anything that hits him hard .That is one of the things that come with a close relationship . you need to just take a step back let what ever it is that has a burr up his lower tract pass and then when he is calm ask if there is any thing you can do because you don't like seeing him in anguish . or on the other hand he may be feeling a little smoothed by your attention and if that's the case same thing step back and approach at the opportune moment . Now lets talk about this porn lol.

2006-08-27 20:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 0 0

I know how you feel. See me and my girlfriend are so busy with school, I'm a hard worker so well I get my work done really fast, and usually I don't have any work, because it just involves studying and I don't usually study, unless it's Spanish. That's about it. All other classes I have it all in my head for some reason.

My point besides that above is that she is a hard worker as well and well she just isn't on. And sometime I feel like she is ignoring me, and after that I sometimes feel like she doesn't like me anymore, because I just can't understand how she can only talk to me once a week. And well it doesn't help when each week it's a new reason why she couldn't talk to me, or why she can't respond to e-mails, or IM me, or not being on, etc...

So well believe me I above all people know how you feel. But you know what this is when your trust for your boyfriend really kicks in, if he still tells you that he loves you and cares about you. And shows that he is happy around you. Then you have nothing to worry about, the day he stops saying he loves you, cares about you, and loves being with you. That's the day you should worry. But well don't question him, I mean it's normal for you to feel that way. So well try to ignore it, unless you get solid proof, like him actually saying it, or you see him cheating on you. and of course anything else that would be proof that he doesn't have any interest in you anymore

Until that day, and hopefully it never comes, just remember to relax, take it easy, and just be happy that your relationship is still going on. And remember that your not the only one that feels this way, and it's perfectly normal. And you just need to have more faith in your boyfriend, and especially in your relationship

2006-08-27 20:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0 0

Lady I know you feel like he doesn't like you and guys will say but I do or I wouldn't be with you or do things for you. Remember this always no matter in life or school the only dumb question is the question you don't ask because you get it wrong so you feel like ah man I meant to ask that but I didn't. So the only way to know anything is to basically ask. I don't care if he gets mad or your in the market and they smirk at you ask. This is why people look dumb founded when they are lost I should have pull in to the gas station an ask direction. So girlly ask him then you will know the truth and if it is a lie then you will know that to better to know then not to.

2006-08-27 20:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dexter S 1 · 0 0

Why are you in a relationship with someone that you have to guess rather or not he like you if you feel he don't wont you just leave him alone. You could ask him do he wont you or not but he might tell you yeah and tell his friends something else so just leave him alone.

2006-08-27 20:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by kita 2 · 0 0

Next time the two of you are intimate, tell him what you like about him. If he has a brain at all he will do the same. If he gives some smartass response he probably doesn't really like you.

2006-08-27 20:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by no need for a name 3 · 0 0

If you have to ask, he doesn't like you that much. Is he paying attention to you, introducing you to his friends and family, taking you places, remembering special occassions, acting proud of you in public, giving you compliments and the biggest, most important thing of all: Is he listening to you when you talk and generally act interested in what you're saying? If he doesn't- dump him fast and move on.

2006-08-27 20:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by gmpranis1 2 · 0 0

If he genuinely likes you, you won't have to ask him. He'll do things for you to impress you or he'll find some ways to show his affections for you. It could be gifts, surprises, gestures or just sweet words. Beyond that, it's all in the way he touches you and of course, in the way he kisses you.

2006-08-27 20:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0 0

i'd rather answer the question about the lesbo porn

2006-08-27 20:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Stare at him right in the eyes and if he lokks away or acts weird around you then you probably are right, I know it might be hard but just the magic is lost, I know corny but GOOD LUCK!!

2006-08-27 20:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♥BrunetteSweetie♥ 3 · 0 0

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