this lady at work asked me if i'm dating someone i said yes i am and she knows that but she keeps asking me and then tells me i need to expand or extend my horizon.......what does that mean?.....why is she telling me this.....we work with alot of drill instructors i'm dating one and she tells me to talk to more of them....she flirts with alot of them i don't want to do that .....and when the guy i'm dating come to my job she gets her friend and say oh is that so and so is that him is that him....what is her problem? she's like 12 years older than me and these drill instructors and she's married.....how can i get her to leave me alone ?and the guy i'm dating?
2006-08-27 13:04:03 · 12 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guess she doesn't want to be the only whore in the building?
2006-08-27 13:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't satisfied with her own marriage. She may be trying to capture some of the young love around her by asking these questions. She may be jealous of your youth and future. There are a lot of reasons she could be doing this. Do your best to be polite and ignore the rest.
2006-08-27 13:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. She probably wants you. That is why she told you to extend your horizon. Another words to date someone else for once.
2006-08-27 13:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by mat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't feel that this is appropriate discussion for the workplace. Tell her that it makes you uncomfortable. She may find that odd, or snobish, but it might get her to back off.
She might be very unhappy in her life. She could be trying to live through you. That doesn't work unless you make your life more exciting for her.
2006-08-27 13:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by ncladams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that unlike her, you respect your boyfriend and youre not interrested in anyone else. and when she starts flirting with other men, maybe if you say so that they can hear say so, how is your husband doing. then maybe they wont want her and she will leave you alone.
2006-08-27 13:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's suggesting you realize the D.I. maybe's not the best guy for you. Is she his friend? Your friend? You're young; experiment, don't get stuck in a rut. Aren't you worth it? I say you are!
2006-08-27 13:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell her to stop.
2006-08-27 13:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on who ever your dating,ignore her
2006-08-27 13:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by troyluva80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question is unclear. Do you feel like she is hitting on you?
2006-08-27 13:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by not computer saavy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in a calm voice to mind her own BUSINESS!!!!!!!!
2006-08-27 13:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋