i'm 45 years old, and i just dont want sex that much anymore,i'm good if i get it once every other week or so is this the avg,for a guy my age?,and is it wrong if i dream about having other women, other than my girlfriend? i mean i care deeply about my Girlfriend, but we lost the spark years ago,I've never cheated on Her, but all i hear is that i have some help here please?
2006-08-27 12:55:15 · 4 answers · asked by rpoker 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to reconnect with y0our girlfriend. If you don't feel strongly about her that much anymore, whats the point of staying together. You either need to get your emotional feeling and connection with her on track or let her be with someone, that has true feelings about her. I mean deep, physical, sensual, emotional, you want to be with her as much as you can. Thats how a realtionship is supposed to be if you love someone and are attracted to someone. Its not just about sex. Its about all your other connections as well. Your best friend, partner, lover, companion, there when you need someone, there to take care of you. That is what are caring relationship is all about. You need to decide if you want to make you girlfriend happy or make her miserable by continuing to live this way? Good luck.
2006-08-27 13:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all relationships have to be about sex and if your not in a good one that may be part of the problem, no I don't think its wrong for you to think about other women you are human after all and what we think about and what we do are two different things, from what it sounds like to me she is very insecure and she is pushing you away by telling you that you are cheating on her and from my experience the more a person tells you that you are doing something the more you really want to just to get them off your back, if the spark is gone in your relationship then why stay? I would seriously think about what you want for you and don't worry about the sex thats obviously the last thing you should be worrying about make yourself happy the rest will come later.
2006-08-27 20:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by dnicebnice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is average? what is normal? is like asking how long is a piece of string?
Different things suit different people.
If your partner does not trust you, you need to communicate better and find out why!
As for "spark" all fies will die if they are not fuelled.
It is up to you both to "keep the fires burning" in your relatinship.
Intimacy even without sex will keep love alive. Courtesy and respect and little acts of loving kindness helps, as does laughter.
You need to go on "dates" together, they don't have to be expensive, picnics and walks and talking without distractions will help you to get back in tune with eachother.
2006-08-27 20:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Christine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married...spice up your relationship
2006-08-27 19:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋