only certain family members contact me to see what is going on in my life. I f I was homless or sick they could care less.I am the black sheep.I don't fit in because the tend to break off in clicks.
2006-08-27 12:53:22 · 15 answers · asked by lei lei 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just the ones that attempt to stay in contact with you.
2006-08-27 12:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by the1princessh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think just because they are "family" you should stay in touch. Just because they are "family" does not mean they are good for you. Having the title "family" doesn't give them the right to disregard you and your feelings. Just stay in contact with the ones who care for you. Some may not agree with me but you can get support and the feeling of importance from good friends sometimes more than you could get from a biological family. I know I sound bitter that's because I am, my family shows a lot of favouritism, so I just stay out of it and let them go at it.
2006-08-27 14:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what happens in the end.. your family comes FIRST. they raised you.. changed your diapers.. fed you icky baby food.. taught you how to crawl.. walk, the whole enchilada! the least you can do for them is to keep in contact. even though it may seem that they don't care what happens to you but deep down, I KNOW they do care about you. You do'nt have to neccesarily like them, or enjoy their company. As long as you inform them about your life every now and then, that's a good start. It's better than nothing.
2006-08-27 13:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should stay in contact, your family is FAMILY! Just because they act a certain way doesn't mean that you should stoop to their level. Just when you think that no one cares or no one thinks of you you may be surprised that one or more in your family do care, they may not know how to express themselves, they may not care to talk much but you may be surprised how many actually do care and do follow your daily pursuits without you knowing it.
2006-08-27 13:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by chysamcal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you have good communication with the members who are contacting you. I hope you also
contact them. In time, other family members may
accept you as you are, so you will overcome the
feeling of being the "Black Sheep."
You will have fond memories of shared moments
when you stay in touch with your family.
Good luck.
2006-08-27 13:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by littlered 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep regular contact with the ones that contact you and the rest just send them a card at Christmas to let them know your still around if they want to contact you.
2006-08-27 13:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by hedgehog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay close to the few family members that care about you.
2006-08-27 12:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our family is the same way. Hence, I don't talk to them much. I got tired of trying to stay in contact with them, it was like trying to fill up a bottomless pit.
2006-08-27 13:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
family is always going to be your family. Why dont you try to built a relationship with those that you dont talk to? and never break contact with your family. Your fam is very important. Show them that you are not a black sheep, prove to them that they are wrong.
2006-08-27 12:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by laural8477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the journey that your desperate. specific. yet do no longer actually sparkling them and erase them out your previous. At leat on yule or New twelve months in simple terms supply a speedy circulate to. I propose, kin is often and buddies are momentary. buddies are for relaxing and play yet kin is kin, it is undescribable. you purely ought to comprehend to no longer erase them out ur existence, ok?
2016-09-30 23:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋