you had been talking to online for 6 months but you two never met because you are at war. You two have written letters got involved in each other's personal life, you have shared deep secrets, and you have admitted having strong like for each other. Now you come home next month, and she tells you she wants to have sex with you because she feels the getting to know each other part has already taken place over the last 6 months. She tells you that she has been tested, and she is on birth control and now she is just waiting for you to come home. What would you guys think about that women, and do you think this would be a good or bad idea. Also you two have exchanged a lot of pictures so you know what each other looks like. I am asking mature guys only I don't want any smart ****es to answer this question.
2006-08-27 12:30:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it and enjoy. its just sex and if things don't work out you have just shared a little joy. something that the world needs more of. I wish someone had been waiting for me when I got back from my war
2006-08-27 17:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Horrible idea. I've never done any dating online, but I have met people that I had previously only known online - and had known very well online. The thing is - real life is different. I don't know why, but when I have met someone that I connected with online, the online chemistry doesn't transfer to real life immediately. I felt like it is a person that I know minute details about, but I have no grasp of their body langugage - which is a huge form of communication that online can't bring you. I feel like I almost have to start the relationship from square one.
Now the sex thing is a completely different topic, and my personal opinion is to stay far away from it until marriage because of the emotional scarring I have seen it do to people when those relationships end.... but that's just my opinion ;)
Absolutely get to know the guy - but be careful =)
2006-08-27 19:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by A Tiger in Athens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a bad idea. sex before marrage is never a good idea.
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"premarital sex creates broken families, broken families creates broken society - a vicious cycle only you can stop."
2006-08-27 19:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if i was at war it would give me something to come back to thats for sure. but reading a letter and actually talking to someone are two completly different things.
2006-08-27 19:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally,i think the gesture sounds good,but i think it is not a good idea right away.you should get to know each other face to face.that is what i think.i been there,so i can speak from expirience
2006-08-27 19:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by backlashwarrior 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to know the REAL person first...Of course that is if you want a REAL relationship. My experience is that NOBODY is who they say they are online.
2006-08-27 19:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by diabl0blanc0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me you two are already very close friends, and have the begginings of a strong relationship. good luck
2006-08-27 19:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by mike p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never become involved on-line. Good luck with that. Many people do.
2006-08-27 19:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if all the info that has been exchanged is true, then i would go for it.
2006-08-27 19:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that I had found the woman of my dreams..
GOOD GIRL.....
2006-08-27 19:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋