Why do women continue to have sex with men who do not please them sexually? Is this a sign of low self-esteem?
I have a problem. Women why do you not think that your own satisfaction in sex is not as important as the man you are with being satisfied? Why do some women continue to have sex with a man who could care less about her having an orgasm or her being fulfilled during sex. I am tired of hearing women say, "Oh I don't have an orgasm when my bf and I have sex", although he has one all the time. What about the fact that women appear to be more open about giving oral sex than the man is to giving oral to her. Is this a sign of low self-esteem? Have you been with a person who always wanted to get a nut off of you, yet they did not care whether you got yours or not? And if so, did you continue to have sex with this person even though you were not satisifed? And if you did why did you? Do you not feel that your own satisfaction in sex is not important? And for men, why do some of you tend to use a woman's body for sex? Do you not realize that there is a person attached to the vagina?
2006-08-27 12:15:27 · 9 answers · asked by Tonya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not continue to have sex with a man who did not make my satisfaction a priority. He might get one off on me once, maybe twice but I don't have to eat the whole cow to know that I am eating beef. He would be out before he got three strikes. I am celibate now but when I was sexually active, my partner did his best to please me...through touching, oral, talking dirty or whatever...and guess what...I didn't have to return any of his actions unless I wanted to. It was like his goal was to bring me pleasure and that is how it has to be with me. I'm not selfish because I will put in work when the time comes but not before he has made me feel like I am on top of the world.
2006-08-27 14:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are was to pleasure a women if you do have a small ones.Often times women do have orgasm's but for what ever reason they don't want the guy to know. Sometimes the guy is just to darn small and they don't want to hurt their feelings, Some guys may have a long one, but no thickness, they would have just as much fun with a long pencil! A lot of guys are out to please themselves and to heck with the other person! There just selfish jerks at best.
2006-08-27 19:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have 1 because it takes me a long time to orgasm 2 i have no man yet who knows exactly what hes doing to make me orgasm 3 i get bored right very quick. maybe cause im not interested in him 4 i just recently stopped having sex with a man with a very extremely small dick that did absoulty nothing for me. why did i continue becasue i had low self esteem and i didn't want to hurt his feelings then it was because i now have a 3 yr old with him. and he is the one i have not had sex with lately. im tired of it and he also treats me like crap. 5 he alsways got his ni=ut off and i never did but he did give oral but i started off with sex sex and that is what my vagina is crying for not tongue and it is actually a turn off when a guy tells you he loves giving oral. yuck stds are out there and i didn;t want it on my mouth and he also let it out that there is nothing wrong with prositutes and they are the best. so i said bye bye small dick.
2006-08-27 19:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by hunnie l 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you in your late teens or early twenties ?? I have a feeling you are because I said this same thing at the age of 20 to my bf. He wanted to have sex all the time and to be quite frank he didn't please me. One day I said to him after he was complaining that I didn't want to sex "again" and I asked him "DO YOU KNOW WHY I DONT WANT TO HAVE SEX ?" I'M NOT HAVING ANY FUN. He was hurt but it was the damn truth. Most guys dont have a clue how to make a girl c*m. You either need to be with someone that has a lot of experience or you need to tell him exactly what you want. Unfortunately, they are stupid and they need you to walk them through it.
2006-08-27 19:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes i had this problem i tried to keep the relationship it was for four years but i finally got tired of it and left him
2006-08-27 19:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like to get f...d even if I dont orgasm. I feel sexy. I think it's better to give than receive.
2006-08-27 19:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get real....the best part of a woman is between her legs...the rest is optional.
2006-08-27 19:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I always get mine!
2006-08-27 19:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
go masturbate your self
2006-08-27 19:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋