Okay so lately I've been having dreams that I'm having sex. Do these dreams mean anything? I'm saving my virginity for when I'm older and ready for it, so don't say something like, "Girl, you need to get some," or anything like that.
2006-08-27 12:11:19 · 12 answers · asked by CathyH 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you say you're saving yourself for when you are older & ready so im guessing you are a teenager.(sorry if Im wrong)
Well done, by the way, you keep it for someone special.
Sex dreams are normal, in your teens you are going through puberty. all those hormones going mental, there is a lot of talk about sex when u r in your teens, you are getting curious about it. its perfectly normal, so dont worry.
If you are older its the same. Sex is everywhere, on tv, magazines, its totally unavoidable.
Humans are sexual beings, thats the way we are, sex is a great and normal part fo life, so dont worry about it.
and it doesnt even have to be someone you fancy, I often dream about total strangers, or blokes I work with, I cant control what I dream about, (wish i could!) so its perfectly normal.
Im 35, married and have a good active sex life, but I still have plenty of saucy dreams!
2006-08-27 12:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by lozzielaws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are normal. You are around people talking about it all day, you see it on every show you watch, what else can you expect? Also, I assume that you are 15-18 years-old, at this age your body and your mind are going through a drastic change. Nature is preparing you for adulthood, and that includes becoming sexual.
You have the right idea about waiting. Since your body is preparing for adulthood, you should too. Take some college courses, decide what you want for yourself in the future. At 17, I did not understand this and eventually became a teenage mother. Believe me, becoming a mom too young makes for a VERY HARD life.
2006-08-27 12:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by collegemom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just a wet dream. Just means you are getting older. Everyone has at least one in their life time. Nothing to be alarmed about. Its good you are saving yourself. I know these days may cause you to want to have sex but don't do it. Wait till your older and your in love.
2006-08-27 12:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you hit puberty, your hormones change including those that trigger the sex drive to procreation. So sex dreams are often your bodies signal that you are ready for sex to bear children. Unfortunately, in our society, that age of puberty is far too young to be able to raise a child as we are still barely out of childhood ourselves. How to resolve this is a moral issue you must decide. There are a lot of options out there. Explore them.
2006-08-27 13:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by upside down senior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did these dreams start when you started at Yahoo Answers?
I see you are at level 1. That might have something to do with your dreams. And your dreams are not dumb.
Take care.
2006-08-27 12:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you...you are just a healthy girl...the dreams just mean you are healthy like everyone else when it comes to sex..and you have desire like everyone else...don't let them manifest though.. I am proud of you that you are going to wait till you meet the right guy. In these days, that is very hard for young women to do..
2006-08-27 12:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These aren't dumb but part of growing up, getting older, coming into your own identity sexually. Keep having them. Enjoy them for as long as they last. If you're lucky, they'll last a lifetime!!! They signify that you are feeling good about yourself, life, and handling stress. Congratulations~
2006-08-27 12:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by robert r 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for one those dreams are there to cause you to have feelings that you should not be having. Keep waiting and let GOD handle it. the bible says that he will keep that who commit unto him
love ya and good goings on your dilemma
2006-08-27 12:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kendra F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think subconciously, you are wondering what it will be like, that's all. You may have recurrent dreams about it, because you don't know what to expect, and your mind is wondering about what it will be like. Hats off to you for waiting!
2006-08-27 12:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by kelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope dreams reallly dont mean anythign they are just random thoughts from your head. Just enjoy them :)
2006-08-27 12:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by macintosh3214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋