im totlay head over heels in love with this guy, and im aslo scared to death. we are suppost to be getting married next june. i just want to know if its ok to be scared.
2006-08-27 12:11:17 · 17 answers · asked by ajiel07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course its ok to be scared. being in love with someone is a big thing, and you'll have lots of uncertainties/doubts/etc. just give it some time, and you'll see that theres nothing to be scared of, especially if youre with someone who you truely love and feel comfortable with.
2006-08-27 12:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. Just make sure that you are not scared that you don't love him like you should. I think what you are feeling is fine. I am feeling the same thing right now, and I have expressed that to my fiance because my past and my upbringing has caused me to be scared of some one loving me because I always thought that they would be with me as long as they did not love me but when they started to love me they would leave me that was what me past thought me, but I was wrong, and I love my man, and he understands and supports me, and is patient with me so I hope you are having open communication about this to. If so you will be fine because his love should take all those butterflies away. Good luck.
2006-08-27 12:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it's okay but it is normal. I have been in love(I am not now) and it can be really great so if you are in that place-enjoy it and don't think about being scared, it will only take the joy out of the moment! Good Luck!
2006-08-27 12:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by Special 'K' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to be a little scared. You are making a big step. Just make sure that you aren't having second thoughts. You don't want to marry this man if you're not sure about it.
2006-08-27 12:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it most definitely is ok to be scared of being in love, u never know how your life will be...So accept you fear and try to overcome it. I wish you well in your future with your couple.
2006-08-27 12:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay to be scared of love. For once you might be scared that once yall get married he might cheat on you,but you just going to have to put your faith in god.
2006-08-27 12:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by kita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its ok. Love is something to be scared of.
2006-08-27 12:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, love is a great and scary thing, but you'll get over the fear, and then it'll be the best time of your life.
2006-08-27 12:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by cameo_in_a_drug_bust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you afraid of? You need to find the source of your fear. Time is in your favor if thats what it takes to find out why you are afraid. If you love him.... then why be afraid. I suppose its ok to have "cold feet" prior to the wedding.. but you have lots of time to think about that and handle your fears. Good luck.
2006-08-27 12:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Frankly the prospect terrifies me.
2006-08-27 12:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by malcy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋