I met this guy over 6 months ago, where he works, we started talking online and over the phone regarding work matters, then we became firends, never hung out, he has my phone number, and calls me after work, we talk almost everyday, but I only have his number at work, he won't give me his home number, blocks the number when he calls me. He's not married, or involved, because I can tell when he calls me from home. He says that he likes our friendship, we flirt when we do talk, but he seems afraid of rejection, so I showed him that I was interested, but he keeps shying away. I am very straight forward and I ask him all the time why he acts like this, and he does everything to avoid the question he even will try to get off the phone whenever I start asking serious questions. He's so nice and I don't want to stop being his friend especially because we are getting so close. But what close friend do u have, that u can't even have their phone number or hang out with?? Confused!
2006-08-27 12:05:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is confused too . .
2006-08-27 12:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by ????a?? ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this sound very familiar. It sounds like me when I was dating two women, other guys when they have a wife at home and want a girlfriend on the side. Just ask him if he has another g/f but start with that is OK you just want to be able to call and talk to him more. I dont know what possible proof you have he is not married no ring does not mean that, but I bet he is either not really serious or has another friend on the side.
2006-08-27 19:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've latched on to a real weirdo. Unless you're getting something out of this strange 'friendship', I suggest you cut all ties with this person. Or at least, stop pressuring him for a more intimate relationship. Leave well enough alone. Be careful what you ask for...You might be sorry
2006-08-27 19:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hiding something! You can't have HIS number? He could still be married, maybe she is at work when he calls. I would drop this one. 6 months? And you don't even hang out? A guy would drop a girl who doesn't PUT OUT in a month! Run away! Run as fast as you can. I see too many RED FLAGS.
2006-08-27 19:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he's just a shy and timid guy, those are hard to find, but it could be. Give it time. I think that you want more out of this than he might be wanting. Just focus on friends right now. Worrying yourself over a guy who isn't coming around the bend is worth it. If he's ready for more than friends, he'll hint it sometime. It just sounds a bit sketchy to me, how secretive he's being.
2006-08-27 19:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by shortskirtmakeitwork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! He is obviously married or in a relationship. So what if he calls from his home, its most likely when "she" isn't home or he is another room were he cant be heard. Walk away, sounds like bad news. I am sure you can find someone just as nice who CAN give you his home number!
2006-08-27 19:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your options open that's very strange behavior for a guy that's interested stay friendly dint get too involved the truth will come out eventually
Be encouraged
Gods Love
2006-08-27 19:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by caramelcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stopped reading after the" you know he's not involved" if you have been seeing someone for over 6 months, there is no reason for them not to give you their home number, UNLESS they are hiding something. whether it be because of embarrasment of where he lives or the fact that he really is seeing someone else. look deeper into the situation.
2006-08-27 19:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by 0000000000000000000000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, stay away!!. This guy is hiding something...His is either married or has a girlfriend. He only calls you from home when his girl is not around. This guy is lying to you. If I were you, I would back off before I get hurt..
2006-08-27 19:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Boricua Chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S MARRIED OR INVOLVED!!! Men can still call from home when they are married. It's not against the law to use the phone. It also doesn't mean the wife is home all the time when he calls.
2006-08-27 19:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man is married or living with someone...rather he calls you from home the other person may not be there at the time he calls you...you are very naive if you think other wise
2006-08-27 19:09:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋