Why does everyone like all the popular people when they doen't even have a lot of friends? like this girl names Shaylee. she isn't that pretty and she is afraid of life so why would people even stand to be around her?
2006-08-27 11:55:53 · 32 answers · asked by lana 4 in Dining Out ➔ Canada ➔ Victoria
the popular girls must be popular because they like to dine out
2006-08-27 19:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not always the way someone looks or even whether someons is well-off or poor. Personality is very important as well. It could be that Shaylee has a personality that people are drawn too. These days its becoming to be more acceptable to have a small "close" group of friends as opposed to a whole lot of friends. You can share more and trust a smaller group of people that way with your inner-most thoughts feelings and fears. And this is what ultimately makes people comfortable around each other.
2006-08-27 12:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by styymy_2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey there rein in that jealousy it can be seen from a mile off. Pretty has nothing to do with it. Maybe she is a nice person and people just like her. It appears you are afraid of life if you're willing to sit on the side lines and mope over this girl who everyone likes instead of getting out there yourself and be happy.
2006-08-28 06:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by solgiver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a mystery I never figured out. I also wondered the same thing in highschool. Just let the popular girl be. If she is not a friend of yours then don't waste your time thinking about it.
2006-08-27 14:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by scornell_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just has a lot of aquaintences from her church,or some other extra curricular activity,and has just been lucky to still have her peeps around .Not to worry,it usually is like this until around age 18 or 19.Nobody really cares..really.I hope you find your friends are just as special as her friends are to her.If she is new,well ,then she is just the magnet of the year,still.look around and enjoy what you have..others do!!
2006-08-27 14:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are popular because they do drugs. that is why alot of people in my school are popular. they also could be out going and really fun. they could be real chill or layed back. another is when they are *** wholes or bitches. because they boss people around others laugh. or people that pick on the non cool kids. she could be one of these.
2006-08-27 12:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbi-su S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No kidding!!! Guys would rather have a skinny self-centered 100 waif that treats him like crap, than have an average woman who would traet him like gold. Guys are so into how other guys perceive them. They think that if they have some Paris Hilton wannabe, other guys will be jealous.
2006-08-27 11:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Yup! I'm a girl! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty isn't the only thing that makes a person appealling, a nice personality and a lack of vanity often helps...
2006-08-27 12:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ajescent 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." You shouldn't judge her. Second of all there are many reasons for being popular, but yes, usually it is based on the clothes one wears.
2006-08-27 12:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting this affect you? People are liked and are popular for different reasons, not just for being pretty.
2006-08-27 11:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by beez 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋