i have been asking questions like this and even though the answers are so good (thx 2 everyone that answered) i cant get this guy off my mind he is the type of guy that makes you feel like amazing and he is so awesome but he doesnt like me and there are no good guys at my school and i'm not into online dating i just need some reassuring words or something to get this guy off my mind =(
2006-08-27 11:47:52 · 21 answers · asked by xoRoCkErxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aw, hunny don't even worry about it. One day you are going to meet the perfect guy and it'll make the wait all worth while!
2006-08-27 11:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Danica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no good guys at your school maybe because you have not allowed yourself to discover them. You feel that way because right now you dont want anyone else but this guy. Taking this guy off your mind is tough I know I was stuck on a girl for a while. I started dating someone else and it helps in some ways but then you end up using the other person as a tool to try to get over the previous one, the best thing for you to do is just stop calling him, dont talk to him, cut yourself off completely because if you dont you will be stuck. Our minds are so powerful because we wish and we want but we make these wants and needs into reality with our minds. But if thats possible then we also have the ability to turn it all off with our minds as well. Love is difficult but if youre not happy in the end then its not the end. Good luck with everything.
2006-08-27 18:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by niceguy4agze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i havent answered any question like this yet so...this would be my first time. Im sorry u have a guy on ur mind, but so do i. im 14 and i met this amazing guy. He is i think 15. i posted a question if u wanna see it about him. anyways, i dont want to stop thinking about him. he is amazing. perfect. u do know that u dont have to stop thinking about guys, right? its ur mind, think what u want. but if u really wanna get him off ur mind...try hanging out with other friends. More often. go out and do something so fun u cant help but think about it. hope i helped.
2006-08-27 18:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said, he does not like you, what is it going to take, for you to get the picture? You need to find something to do, get a hobby, why does having a guy at school, be the only thing you are their for. I promise you will find Mr, Right, at the right time, be patient.
2006-08-27 19:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call a friend and ask if they would like to go out, do something that is normally enjoyable and fun. now you are thinking that with him on your mind you wont have any fun going out. well if you truly try and have a bit of fun with or without a friend, the time you spend on yourself will help ease the pain and let you forget the man you pine after.
2006-08-27 18:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by wylensweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After time you will forget him, in the meantime just focus on your favorite hobbies and things to do. Or, you could answer people's questions on here to take your mind off of things.
2006-08-27 18:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by kcdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL TO TELL U THE TRUTH THE ONLY THING THERE IS TO DO IS TO TELL HIM AGAIN OR TO JUST ACCEPT THE FACT THAT HE DOESN'T FEEL THAT WAY FOR U BELIEVE ME I HAVE BEEN THERE DONE THAT I HAD SOMEONE WHO MADE ME FEEL SO SPECIAL WHEN I WAS AROUND HIM,BUT AFTER AWHILE I KINDA THROUGH HINTS AT HIM THAT I LIKED HIM AND FINALLY I TOLD HIM AND THATS WHEN HE TOLD ME HE REALLY DIDN'T LIKE ME LIKE THAT AFTER THAT I WAS SO HURT AND I WAS LIKE U THERE WAS NO ONE IN MY SCHOOL AT ALL THAT FITTED HIS PERSONALITY.I REALLY DON'T WANT TO ANSWER UR QUESTION LIKE THIS,BUT I RATHER TELL U LIKE THIS THAN EVERYONE COMING UP WITH ANSWER THAT AREN'T THE BEST WAY TO GO TAKE MY ADVICE TELL HIM HOW U FEEL AGAIN OR LET IT GO,BUT IT MIGHT TAKE AWHILE BELIEVE ME U WILL FIND SOMEONE.
2006-08-27 19:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by localpeople35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve got to forget about this guy, no matter how great you think he is, because theres going to be plenty of other fellas out there that are beta dan him, some mayb be so obvious that you dont even realise it.
2006-08-27 18:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by g_m90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk by phone or email with your friends, and forget about it.In you future life,you will find many men( like this man you talk about it.), you need to be very mature and control your feelings.This happen to men and women.Good luck.
2006-08-27 18:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself busy. Do something constructive or something nice for someone. Make a new friend and concentrate on him/her.
2006-08-27 18:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by newdirection 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋