we love each other but its like imma afraid to give it a try cus im afraid to get hurt again...and im not sure if he is really the right guy 4 me...but i feel like w/o him its really hard for me... what should i do?? Give it a try and willing to get hurt or just stop it now??
2006-08-27 11:26:13 · 17 answers · asked by i got Question 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it a chance or you'll never know for sure if he is the right one. Just don't rush yourself....give yourself time to really see if he is worth it. Don't give all of yourself at once...this way if he isn't the one then you won't feel so bad about giving yourself this chance.
2006-08-27 11:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Hazel Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say try but go slow. Give yourself and this guy time to know for sure if what you really feel is love or just friendship. It may end in pain, but then it could end up making you both very happy. 50/50. I know it's hard to know what to do. But, you are left with nothing but the memory of your past hurt if you don't try. And, I've been hurt more than once, and you do survive. You learn from it and grow and know more about what you want in a man later on. Good luck!
2006-08-27 11:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of chances you have to take each day in order to live and funtion in this world. If you never take the chance... then what chance do you have to be able to find out what you really want in a guy or relationship. Getting hurt is not the worst thing in the world.. never getting the chance to know what love is or experience the memories that can be possibilities, would be worse than getting hurt in my opinion. Good luck.
2006-08-27 11:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever problems you have now won't go away and just keep coming back. You want him now because you're afraid of being alone.. but sometimes that is good.. you can find yourself and find out what you really want in a person. Also what did he do to hurt you, once a cheater, always a cheater, .. is he mean.. dump him.. you'll get over it.. in a few years you won't even remember his name.. trust me on this one
2006-08-27 11:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by At the seashore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think if u give it up now, u'll still gonna get hurt, and u'll alwalys be left wondering the what if. and if u really do love him the good times will outway the bad 10x so just give it a shot, but make sure he loves u too, and make sure hes not an asshole becasue guys like that will hurt u
2006-08-27 11:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no option than to love and be loved.
give love a chance if you are sure the person in question is responsible, if not dont give or you ll be hurt again.
2006-08-27 11:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop. wait like 10 years because it's obvious that you are like 14 years old. you are gonna get hurt again. guys don't know what love is until they are like 30.
plus there is no reason to hurry love. if you aren't sure, then why did you say you love him? obviously you are confused, kiddo. it's hard being single, but it's harder being hurt.
2006-08-27 11:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should deffinatly give it a try. I mean whats love without taking a chance. No one should miss out on the chance for love. =]
2006-08-27 11:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know unless you give it a try. Throw caution to the wind and go for it.
2006-08-27 11:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u know hes not the right guy if u havent given it a try?
2006-08-27 11:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋