i mean, i pay the billss, splitting a house with friends, i'm going to school and trying to save up. i just can't really afford to take a girl out and my jeep is broken down. don't you ladies usually just give a guy like me the cold shoulder?
2006-08-27 11:20:28 · 35 answers · asked by imjustsotired 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, they will say they don't care about money, but in reality they do.
2006-08-27 11:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Edward 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's true, girls act like they don't care about money but in reality, EVERYONE does. It's not such a big deal if you don't make money a big deal. I mean I'm sure you have some kind of finance. You're not totally POOR. A girl and guy should definitely split things once in awhile (I do, and I don't feel like he should have to pay all the time) Besides, who said that everything fun involves money? As long as you know how to have fun and respect and appreciate her then I'm sure Girls will find you attractive. Just DON'T EVER TALK ABOUT MONEY, or say I'm too broke to take you out or whatever, or don't be greedy with money either just because you're broke. It's a total TURN OFF. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-27 11:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was bright, caring and ambitious. By ambitious, I don't mean necessarily for money, but for doing something with his life, like helping others or having some interest or "passion" that could be parlayed into at least a modest income.
You will probably find more interest in you when you are able to pay the bills on a house by yourself. Doesn't have to be a big one, but needs to be neat outside and in. Not obsessively neat, just clean and functional without lots of clutter. THEN you will be like catnip to a cat.
And finally, don't be over-anxious. Desperation is a bad cologne.
2006-08-27 11:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not where I come from. As far as what you said, I would be more interested in the fact that you are getting an education trying to save and make something for yourself for the future. A guy who has goals and dedication is what matters to me as well as knows how to treat a women right. Lets face it. it's the 21st century equal rights. Don't waste your time on a girl who is only interested in the size of your wallet.
2006-08-27 11:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl is sincere, she won't care about what kind of car you have or if you live with friends. I mean of course being able to treat her to nice things is always a plus in any budding relationship or hookup, but if you want her to like you for the honest and real you. You shouldn't have to sugar coat your life. She should like you from your personality and the type of person you are. Itr's just that appearance usually is what first attracts a girl to any guy or girl.
2006-08-27 11:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by shortskirtmakeitwork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not having money isn't going to make us girls give you guys the cold shoulder, it's jsut simply the guy who makes us give him the cold shoulder. Some materialistic girls might admit to doing as you assume but most girls who don't care much about a guy and how much hes worth wouldn't mind that your trying to save up. You make us girls seem like materialistic gold diggers. Andn o we aren't all like that, if you think all the girls you've met/known then you need to meet different girls
2006-08-27 11:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Girls will give you the cold shoulder but smart women wont.
Personally, I have looked for potential in men.. what they have now, is just a beginning.
Money comes and goes.. but potential is something that is very very attractive to a smart woman.
Keep going to school and get your degree.
2006-08-27 11:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by Little Bit the Ferret 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not always, you just need to be really gifted in other areas of your personality......(and I'm not being perverted here, although that wouldn't hurt either.)
If you can capture her attention with your eyes, or smile...... or calm, kind manner...you have a good chance at least to get her interested until you have a better hold on your finances. A girl who sticks with you through everything is a rare find, but possible.
2006-08-27 11:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way... it dont always gotta be about a guy spending dough for a girl to be into it.. can u afford to buy a bag of popcorn and rent a movie? a night in watchin movies and snuggling can be just as much fun.. maybe more if u do it right ;-) dont worry.... money doesnt make a man.. and guy like u with goals is really sexy to see.... keep it up.. you will get where u wanna be someday...
2006-08-27 11:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by *CYN* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends on the girl. some females are stuck up snobs that only care about the material in a guy. ( definatly the " cold - shoulder " kind ). but dont worry, you'll find someone who sees passed all of your money problems and loves you for the man that you are.
2006-08-27 11:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to go out with a girl you dont really need a lotof money. when i first started going out with my bf he always invited me around o his house for a candle light dinner and a dvd it was so romantic we could eat together watch a movie together and we could hug and if the movie was scary i could put my head on his shoulder and hed hug me. i think all up a night like that cost him $20-30 tops he just had to ask his flat mate to go out for a couple of hours. but yes we girl are also her for a sholder to lean on but i think you should really try a night inn it leads to great fun too :)
2006-08-27 11:27:34 · answer #11 · answered by sweet_little_kat_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋