my heart has just been crushed by my best friend(sorta)/crush. He didnt want to mean to though. I had a friend talk to him about our relationship status and where we stood. I thought he liked me. See the thing is I told him a while back that I liked him, of course he said no. But afterwards he acted differnet towards me and all. So I thought otherwise. Well the friend told me today that he had told her A. He thinks highschool relationships are pointless and stupid. B. He wouldnt date me b/c it would be too awkward and he doesnt want to mess up our friendship. So I asked her does this mean he likes me but he just doesnt want to get into a relationship? and she said no, he doesnt like you. I cried for a while. I felt and still feel so hurt. I mean I thought I had a chance with him. I have been praying about us for a while. I felt that since we had a really good God based relationship it would definetly work. Cuz anything centered around God is for sure to turn out good. help me!
2006-08-27 11:02:52 · 11 answers · asked by obviousheap 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
** He didnt mean to though
sry i put He didnt to mean though...sry
2006-08-27 11:03:58 · update #1
Like the Bible say "He will give you the desires of your heart" just pray for what you want and God will supply. Just remember that you are God's masterpiece and you are special to Him! Just cheer up( A merry heart doeth good like a medicine.
2006-08-27 11:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by luckyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like your in the same situation as me. But i dont know if my guy friend actually likes me or not he acts like he does.. anyways. Cheer up. He is a boy who doesnt know a good thing when he has it. Best friends make the best boyfriends. Give it time and see how things work out. In the meantime act like you dont like him any more than a friend. That should turn his attention to you and wonder why u dont have an intrest in him and he will start to feel an intrest for you.
2006-08-27 11:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the things he said I would guess he just isn't ready to date at this time. It takes guys longer to get ready for that than girls.
You should respect him for his choice. He probably likes you as much as he can right now. He just isn't into the dating thing. Be very patient and stay his good friend. You never know what may happen in the future.
2006-08-27 11:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going to cheer you up right now!
JOKE TIME!!! yay!
Three women are about to be executed. One's a brunette, one's a redhead, and one's a blonde. The guard brings the brunette forward and the executioner asks if she has any last requests. She says no, and the executioner shouts, "Ready! Aim…"
Suddenly the brunette yells, "EARTHQUAKE!!!"
Everyone is startled and throws themselves on the ground while she escapes.
The guard brings the redhead forward and the executioner asks if she has any last requests. She say no, and the executioner shouts, "Ready! Aim…"
Suddenly the redhead yells, "TORNADO!!!"
Everyone is startled and looks around for cover while she escapes.
By now the blonde has it all figured out. The guard brings her forward and the executioner asks if she has any last requests. She says no, and the executioner shouts, "Ready! Aim…"
And the blonde yells, "FIRE!!!"
I hope you feel a little better now! If not theres plenty more jokes at the link below!
-Kels
2006-08-27 11:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't like your friends. That happens all the time so don't feel bad. i never become friends with someone i think i could ever like. you should find a guy and date him have a good relation ship. If you still like this other guy and feel like you don't want to date someone else do this any way. make it look good show him your a good girlfriend and in a little bit he will realize he should have acted on it. oh and by the way it sounded like he did like you but it would feel weird. me and one of my guy friends like each other but we feel weird so we don't know what to do. but i think this guy will find out he should have dated you. good luck.
2006-08-27 11:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bobbi-su S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watching cartoons like Tom and Jerry, or bugs Bunny instruct might help to alleviate some downers... here's a try 3 previous adult men are out walking. First one says, 'Windy, isn't it?' 2nd one says, 'No, it somewhat is Thursday!' 0.33 one says, 'So am I. enable's circulate get a lager..'
2016-09-30 01:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he doesn't like you and u like him then you should stay friends...I now u don't wann ahear it but I wouldn't waist my time on that stuff....there are pleanty of other god loving ppl out there and if he didn't tell u to ur face that he doesn't like you then he is soo immature,he sould have told *you*,not ur friend! Thats midle school stuff!
good luck
2006-08-27 11:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your very sensitive gurl! u will get over this soon but it might take awhile 4 this pain to heal
2006-08-27 11:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't worry, you have the rest of your life ahead of you. maybe you'll get your chance later on. hang in there. just stay friends and see where it goes from there.
2006-08-27 11:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Airheadster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move forward, there is no future in the past
2006-08-27 11:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋