Me and this girl broke up about 3 weeks ago and have been talkin about getting back together pretty much since the day after we broke up. I asked her about gettin together again 5 days ago and she said she would think about it. I called her last night and she told me we will eventually get back together but she wants just a couple more days to think about it. Is she waitin on someone else, and just keeping me here incase she is rejected(sorry i like sayin that lol) Or does she really just want a couple more days?
2006-08-27 11:01:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has you in the #2 slot in case #1 does not work out.
2006-09-03 23:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really wants to get back with you then she wouldn't need a couple more days. She already has it set in her mind that she wants you back what is she waiting for? Obviously there is a reason why she is waiting. Be carefull and don't get hurt to bad.
2006-09-03 16:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by babykins1025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are being kept in the on deck circle. If she wanted to date you then you would have never broke up to begin with. Get past her and move on. Life is too short not to.
2006-08-27 18:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Robert V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound very promising. Maybe she's got someone else she wants, maybe she wants to keep you as a reserve, maybe she's not sure WHAT she really wants to do, maybe she's playing games...I dunno. Choose any or all, with my compliments.
Why not try and keep it socially friendly (maybe things will perk up in the future), and start looking around for other people in the meantime?
2006-08-27 18:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by samiracat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on she it is clear as day that she doesn't want to get together women know whether or not if they want to make a relationship work
2006-09-04 17:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by pmpforever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be playing hard to get... wants to make you work for it so you won't do it again... maybe wants you to suffer a little.
2006-09-03 14:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may need some time to miss you
2006-09-04 13:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋