its so digustin she does it in front of my brother and i but denies it to my parents and then does it when they r turned around. she says its because it itches (she never wipes after she pees thats y) but sometimes she does it for the pleasure or that its fun. she puts covers over her sumtimes just to do it. and she does it akk the time when shes about to sleep too and its soooooo nasty and she just laughs about it. and when i say ill tell her friends she says "i dont care" shes not that smart cause shes the age that little girls know that they shouldnt be doin that and wat it means and stuff but she doesnt no matter how much i tel her. if i tell her friends i would get in soo much trouble with my parents. what should i do with this dumb 10 year old thats grossing out me and my brother????!!!???? im desperate and hurry before i puke
2006-08-27
10:59:46
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i alredy told my parents everything about hygiene and stuff but the say shut up and leave her alone and take care of myself. and the say i have bad hygiene to cause i keep my room dirty (i know not even comparible)
2006-08-27
11:16:13 ·
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she dosnt wash her hands likes to tuch everything and one, doesnt brush her teat so has gum infection and only eats candy. i get the same respnse out of evrythin listed
2006-08-27
11:18:12 ·
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Compulsive masturbation in an older child can sometimes appear if the child is being sexually abused. When this is the case, the child may show other forms of inappropriate sexual behavior, such as repeatedly talking about sexual acts (especially if the child seems to have more sexual knowledge than expected for their age), imitating the motions of sexual intercourse, inserting objects into the vagina, trying to undress other people and imitating the sexually seductive behavior of adults.
2006-08-27 11:08:49
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answered by Otis F 7
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Have you tried sitting down with her and having a sister/sister talk? You are her big sister, if mom won't talk then you try. Just let her know what you and your brother feel, how gross you think it is to do it in front of everyone...and the washing her hands thing...don't let her touch you and don't touch anything she touches...try to make her understand why washing her hands is important. Tell her about all the nasty germs and that by not washing her hands and then touching herself she is at risk for all the germs. Scare her into being hygienic...ask if she wants kids and tell her some of those germs could make it to where she can't have kids....if she is into boys tell her they don't like it when she talks because her breath is bad and her hands are dirty...try everything and really try to get your parents to understand...try another adult like a school teacher of counselor.
2006-08-31 10:32:33
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answered by fin 3
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Talk to your mother, about everything, including her lack of hygiene, if that is the case. It is normal behavior, to a point, but threatening to tell her friends is not going to do anything except open up a whole new topic that you would have to explain to them. Besides, that's just immature.
One big reason to tell your mom is also to make sure your sister does not share her "joy" with other kids, especially boys, and become, well, very "easy" , later on in life.
2006-08-27 11:12:29
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answered by Karen? 3
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A child advocate once told me that little girls tend to be more sexual(masturbation)...its not un-common, and has absolutely nothing to do with abuse. Girls experoment, especially when they realize "it feels good". Much more so than little boys. This also proves the fact that girls are more sexual than boys, even at an early age. However, this doesn't go along with how females will say "females are more superior or more mature". Which is utterly hidious to even say.
2006-08-27 11:14:47
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answered by Timmmay! 3
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She may have been sexually abused. The "itchiness" could be from a sexually transmitted disease. Also, children who have been molested often masturbate frequently.
Do you know if she is afraid of any person or place?
If your parents don't believe you, I suggest you tell a trusted teacher or school counselor. Good luck.
2006-08-27 11:16:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Sounds to me like your mother should have a good talk with her about whats acceptable and what isn't. Masturbation is natural but not in front of you or anyone..
2006-08-27 11:05:10
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answered by iluvcats58 3
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Your little sis need to be taught that she is now getting older it's not nice to show herself off and she should learn about how her body is changing ,.
2006-08-27 11:08:42
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answered by rudd_linda 4
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Well, I think that you need to make this a pressing issue to your parrents. This isn't your battle. I'd say your mother really should be the one thtalk to her.
2006-08-27 11:06:09
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answered by Anonymous
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Tie her down, lock all the bathroom doors block off the kitchen sink, and put tabasco sauce all over her fingers...
2006-08-27 11:07:39
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answered by Will P 1
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ok, everyone is telling you that she probably is being abused. IDK about this. if i were you, i would sit down with your sister and as if someone is in fact hurting her. if she says no then maybe she seriously does just like to do that for fun. lots of people do, but that still seems disgusting to me.
2006-08-27 11:05:47
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answered by Wat Are U Looking At PowderPuff? 2
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