Okay, so I have been emailing this girl from online. We hit it off great. We finally exchanged numbers and spoke on the phone a few times. I think she is great. We went out to the club and meet up. I'm not sure if it was me/her or the drinking, but she gave me a kiss or two. It was meant to be a non-threatening setting her with her friends and me with my friends. Anyway, I want to get to know her one on one and I don't know how to approach it. I feel so insecure and nervous and her interaction with me seems not distant but not really responsive towards me. However, she'll still contact me. What do I do? I'm a straight forward person, but I dont want to get hurt or make her feel uncomfortable.
2006-08-27 10:56:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sound like you said it all right here. Tell her this when you IM or talk again. Let her know that you don't normally move that fast, but you were overcome with her perfection.
2006-08-27 11:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out always by night, cause is the time when you and her fell more comfortable, take some drinks an you can do your thing, you all ready prove that in the normal situation you dint get a response, so the best way you can do it is in the drunk situations LOL, it happen me once, when the girl and i take some shots we where the most loving couple, but in the normal day or in a walk in the beach at 6 p.m. it was like she and I didn't knew
2006-08-27 18:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by compadre_sv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST YOU NEED TO FIND OUT IF SHE IS INTERESTED IN AN RELATIONSHIP, IF SHE IS BE LIVE AND DIRECT WITH HER DON'T BEAT AROUND THE BUSH WOMAN NOTICE THAT IT IS A SIGN OF LOW CONFIDENCE. LET HER KNOW THAT YOU ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH HER AND WOULD LIKE TO SEE IF THE TWO OF YOU CAN GET ALONG JUST AS WELL ONE ON ONE NO STRINGS ATTACHED. GO TO THE SHOW, TAKE HER TO DAVE AND BUSTERS, SEE YOU CAN PLAY GAMES TOGETHER, EAT AND HAVE DRINKS (ONLY HAVE DRINKS AFTER YOU HAVE GOTTEN TO SPEND TIME SOBER WITH HER, IF IT WAS THE ALCOHOL YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO-DRINK RESPONSIBLY BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO DRIVE) WITHOUT DRIVING ALL OVER TOWN. IF IT GOES WELL, WHEN THE NIGHT IS OVER SHE WILL BE SMILING. IF SHE SMILES WHILE YOU ALL ARE TOGETHER, LOOK AT HER WITH LITTLE AMAZEMENT AND TELL HER SHE HAS A BEAUTIFUL SMILE ONE TIME REGARDLESS OF HER RESPONSE NO MATTER IF SHE SMILES 10,000 MORE TIMES, DON'T SAY IT ANYMORE THAT NIGHT. LISTEN TO HOW SHE FELT THE NIGHT WENT, THEN IF SHE ENJOYED IT WAKE UP EARLY THE NEXT DAY LEAVE HER AN E-MAIL SAYING GOOD MORNING- WHATEVER HER NAME IS- I WANT YOUR DAY TO BE AS BEAUTIFUL AS YOUR SMILE. SIGN YOUR NAME AND LEAVE ON OF THEM SMILEY THINGS BEHIND IT. IF SHE LIKE YOU, YOU WILL BE ON THE FRIENDLY NIGHT NEWS GO FROM THERE.
2006-08-27 18:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by "KRISSY POOH" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like so far she likes you, but she needs to get to know you more too. Maybe you should ask her to come get a cup of coffee with you, whatever you do it should be something simple and a place where you can talk one on one and not be distracted. Good Luck =)
2006-08-27 18:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by xoRoCkErxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUst be yourself and be honest as to what you want and expect.
2006-08-27 17:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by nanny2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋