I went out with this guy twice and we seem to get along very well. We spoke about our hobbies as well as our personal lives. I asked him if he was married before actually going out with him and he said no but after going out with him a 2nd time and opening up to him about my personal issues regarding my divorce he then tells me he has a girlfriend. Did he liked me or did he get scared away.
2006-08-27 10:45:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing is to come out and ask him about his feelings and what he plans, what he would like to do in the future. Ask him if he wants to stay with the girl friend or if he might develop an interest in you. Come right out and ask, and let him know that if he is going to be serious about her, you don't want to interfere and drop out of the picture now before you get serious.
2006-08-27 10:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by misty_blue2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, there's not enough information there to know for sure. Either could be the case. There are other variables also. He could be in intensive care in a hospital somewhere or in jail or on a trip around the world. However, if you've seen this guy or have heard of him being around recently, then you probably scared him away. If you did scare him away, consider yourself lucky that it happened right away and remember that you deserve better treatment than that so it's a good thing that he's out of the picture.
2006-08-27 17:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, its possible that he wasn't very honest in the beginning, which means you don't need him anyway. Its stupid to lie to someone whom you've just met, considering there is not much to loose when you first met someone.
Its also possible that you've scared him away with telling too much of your personal history...........which says that he splits when there is problems, so your two for two, you don't need him
I say don't worry about it, seems as if he was a waste of your time.
2006-08-27 17:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely you can tell he won't be honest about a few other things, if he already ddin't share something important like, having a girlfriend the first date. Eventually you'll end up having feelings that he won't have for you and you'll find yourself emotionally battling for his love over hers, don't do it. Find someone who can be entirely devoted to you, girl =]
2006-08-27 17:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by shortskirtmakeitwork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would a guy want to know about your personal issues on the second date? The past is past, keep your mistakes to your self
2006-08-27 17:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you scared him away, you should never be to free with ex issues with a new person. Better luck next time.
2006-08-27 17:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by perplexed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably too soon to tell him about personal issues... But you were sincere.... Let him go if he is interested he will call and ifhe doesn't call you again, it's because he never was. And too bad, because he is going to miss it. You will find someone who really cares about you.
2006-08-27 17:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by fasawax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about whether he likes you or not, you should just drop it. He's up to something, and that's not a good way to start any relationship. You will find someone new!
What makes you think he wont do it again, but to you?
2006-08-27 17:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely scared him off. Guys don't dig your life story on the second date.
2006-08-27 17:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this depends on other parts of your conversation i am sure if you had vibes you would know and if sexual issues took place it is a whole new ball game.
2006-08-27 17:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by Juanita Tsangning 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋