my friend has been having a crush on this guy who use to go out with her but didn't really like her and she wants me to get them back together...wut should i do????
2006-08-27 10:36:26 · 14 answers · asked by mandy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he never really liked her , I would be a good friend and give her advice to not go back with him , but find someone else and you will help her choose a cool guy with her.
2006-08-27 10:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value yur friendship stay out of it. If you get them back together and it goes belly up you will get the blame. If your friend truly wants the dude back she'll speak up and yu can encourage her to do so but it's up to her , you wouldn't go out on the date for her would you ? then you shouldn't be responsible for hooking her up with the dude espeacially if he's an ex.
2006-08-27 17:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by pink leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. If this is her wish.. she should do the leg work. That way you can stay out of it, she wont be bugging you to do the dirty work, especially if you already know he dont want to be with her. Let her find out for herself. She needs to learn to be independent from you and fend for herself in the things she wants in life. She has to learn how to face rejection head on and not through a friend. Thats all part of life and growing up. Good luck.. but best to steer clear of that.
2006-08-27 17:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her now before it is too late its better she hears that out of your mouth than out of his.I mean do u want her to get hurt twice by the same guy? no i thought not. Tell her the truth and if u are truly friends she will understand
2006-08-27 17:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell her that hey girl i know you like this guy but just think about and tell her that you dont feel comfertable getting them back together.
2006-08-27 17:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Pickle and Chesse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are friends for? tell are your observation,even if she did not take your words and still go for the guy, in no distance time, she will realise you tried to give her the best. then she also will know that you are one friend to have among a million.
2006-08-27 18:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it makes her happy try to get them back together but not until u tell her why they shouldnt go out
also try to give her other sugestions on who she should date
good luck
2006-08-27 17:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jstlovinyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still has feeling for her ex in other words. You should talk to him. Tell him that she still lyks him and if hes interested in her still. If he says yes then good for her but if he says no then good for you you did what you had to do. Its either that or you could tell her that he doesnt really lyk her anymore.
2006-08-27 17:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by Dominican angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are a true friend you should let her know that he has told you that he is not intrested in her at this point he just wants to go at it alone and discover who he is.
2006-08-27 17:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by Juanita Tsangning 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you don't want to do. Give her your honest opinion and tell you want to stay out of it. If she can't respect your wishes then tell her to kiss your ***
2006-08-27 17:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by bird_e80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋