i am in college and absolutely in love with my boyfriend of 2 years but like im just curious of what its like to hook up with a girl or something. is that a bad thing?
2006-08-27 10:35:47 · 30 answers · asked by Courtney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very normal for girls to experiment in college. It'll help you find yourself.
Just take your time and do what feels comfortable and you'll find your way.
Oh, and enjoy yourself!
2006-08-27 10:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by Whattup Doc? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not "bad" but it could create problems you are not prepared for. For example, the girl you hook-up with could be a lesbian and not just bi-curious. What if she falls in love with you? What if she wants a regular thing and you don't? What if your boyfriend finds out and he is not cool with it?
Make sure you think things through carefully....especially if this is just a curiosity thing for you; because, it might not be that way for others in your life or the person you become sexually active with.
2006-08-27 10:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a bad thing to want to hook up with anyone while youre in a relationship whether boy or girl so yes, but if you have no current love interest then of course its ok girl/boy.each to their own
2006-08-27 10:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I am a straight male and like to experiment with guys. Last night I was at a party where everyone stripped down and formed a circle jerk. Read my 360 if you don't know what that is.
2006-08-27 10:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bedroom Celebrity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it. I think it's the most beautiful thing in the world to see two women making love. More power to you and Good luck!
2006-08-27 10:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it at least once and involve your boyfriend into the picture he'll love you for it. Then you can see if it was just a pipe dream or if you really DO like girls
2006-08-27 10:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by zebo007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bad enuff that you are having sex out of mariage, but to also want to do it with a woman is about as sick as it gets. all thought society is telling you its o.k. in years to come you are gona regrett it and hope that someone dosent find out. like your children or future husband.
people are telling you that you should like it. but what if you hate it. and it causes bad emotional fellings that you wont be able to shake for years to come. or it putts you into a state of depression that you cant get over. or you fill so shamefull that you kill yourself.
well like society is saying go ahead. but let me also remind you. if society also saw you standing on the edge of a building geting ready to jump thay would be yelling jump, jump. thay dont care about you thay just want entertained.
2006-08-27 12:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by midnightrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your boyfriend is ok with it sure go for it it is a lot of fun.. but you are in college and just now experimenting with your sexuallity?
2006-08-27 10:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is no crime to experiment with your sexuality
and i think you will find you love your guy even more when you tried something new and are certain you dont want to be with girls instead of guys. so go for it!
2006-08-27 10:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your bf if he would be up for a threesome, if he says no, then you know he does not love you.
Break up with him and then call me. I'll hook you up.
2006-08-27 10:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋