my best friend has been there for 5 years and 2 weeks ago she stared dating this 18 year old.she is 14 and her mom is fine with it.well everytime i go up i have to hang with her brother because she always has him up.well everytime we go to the movies he is always there so i have to go with her brother.then when me and her brother started dating she blew me off even more i have talked to her about it and told her how i fell and the next day she is right back at it!!!what should i do???
2006-08-27 10:32:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She must need some.
2006-08-27 12:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth a real best freind would never ditch her best especially because if they brake up shes gonna come running back and you shouldn't have to take that you should be able to have somebody there when you need them ....
i know that if my best friends ever ditched me for a guy I'd be gone in a split second and be done with her.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-27 10:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really do anything. You can only tell her how you feel and let her know that you miss her. Other than that you can't really force her to hang out with you. Maybe she will see the light and maybe she won't. Why not double date? Since you are dating her brother, why don't all of you go out together, that way you can both spend time together and with your bf's.
2006-08-27 10:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu cannot change her. Find a new best friend. Better yet, take some classes, like dance, music, theater. Cultivate interests and make new friends. She is behaving compuslively. She wants the 18 year old to fill her life.
2006-08-27 10:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see less of her and more of her brother, lol. She'll get the message! When you show up to the house, instead of going straight to her, go hang with your boyfriend. She'll notice and want to spend more time with you. Just try not to be cold with her (even though it will be tempting!) Just act like an acquaintance. She'll come around. Good luck!!!!
2006-08-27 10:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it.. Chicks will throw over thier BFF for a guy at the drop of a hat.
Not all will do this.. but most will.
Just sit back and wait, when it doesn't work out, she will come crying to you and you can be out with your boyfriend when she needs you.
2006-08-27 11:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Little Bit the Ferret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks to me that he desires to this factor you. yet isn't advantageous the type you will possibly react if he asked you out. and must be petrified of what occurs to the friendship if issues do no longer artwork out. Many adult men conflict by that and it is totally difficult for them.
2016-09-30 23:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you best bet if you have any feeings for the brother is find out why she is so madd.If she feels your the right girl to date her brother.and if your still friends.
2006-08-27 10:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Juanita Tsangning 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey that's happen to me but you need to find a real friend not a two faced friend. i hope my advice helps, it helped me i found alot of other friends. now she wishes that she never did it.
2006-08-27 10:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by lollipop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes different maby its different causeshes datinga older guy u cant chage her maby give her some space
2006-08-27 10:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by Hypercutie_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋