Is it ok to ask a girl from a diff. race out?

Question

I am a white male and i really like this asian girl. My parents dont think mixed race couples are cool. Do I go against them or follow their beliefs?

Answer 1

for sure.

Answer 2

If you really like her... GO ahead!!!
I am hispanic, and I REALLY admire asians, for they are extremely organized, smart, know how to party... Your parents should understand after a while. They will even learn from her. I am not saying that this is going to be easy. It might not be, but everyone has differences, even people from the same race. Please tell me this is not truth!!!
It's not like there is a law saying that you should only go out with white people.
Come on!!! follow your feelings!!!
get to know her!!!!
If it doesn't work, then well too bad, but don't just stand there, and then wonder what would have been like!!!!

Answer 3

I think you should always respect your parents opinion but they should also respect yours. Before deciding to pursue a relationship with someone of a different race you should realize not only your parents don't approve but there will be others who don't. If you can handle the pressure then by all means go for it. If you can't then do yourself and the young lady a favor and just be friends. Unfortunately some people don't like that either. I personally do what makes me happy and if someone doesn't like it they can go away.

Answer 4

if your parents are against it, then stay away from asians. we don't want an asian girl to be taken by a white guy whose parents are so damn hypocritical. i'm sure they say they aren't racists? i bet.

if u must know, asian cultures place a big role on family and the society. it all dates back to confucius and all that jazz. we are not as "individualistic" as the whites. by going out with her, you're only setting up unncessary problems for her and her family in the future.

if you feel i'm being too harsh i apologize. but it's the blatant truth.

Answer 5

There's nothing wrong mixed race dating, but I recommend against mixed race marriages, except in the case of White and Mexican, White and Irish, White and Russian.

Answer 6

Go against them! True love should be measured on what's inside, not your skin color, body or anything else. I say go for it! Mixed races can be kinda fun! Think about "My Big, Fat, Greek Wedding"!
Hope this helps and hope it works out.
Best wishes,
Emily

Answer 7

OK if you really like her and your parents love you they will need to learn that they have to accept who you fall in love with. Love knows no color, race. Most of my family doesn't believe in mixed races either but I am in love with a black man and he and i are getting married in October the parts of my family that are totally against mixed races are having to deal with it I mean they don't approve of it but they love me so they are willing to see past the color issue. I basically told them that they didn't have to learn to like him but they had to learn to deal with him if they wanted to see me.

Answer 8

Follow your heart!!
Personally I think people make such an issue about interracial relationships.
I give no thought about nor will I waste my energy on the narrow minded.

Answer 9

Do what u wnat and asians are funn ppl well most i should knoe im asian YAY! anyways have fun its ur life

Answer 10

There is nothing wrong with interacial relationships, your parents need to step into the 21st century.

Answer 11

Dude... it's all the same in the dark. Forget what your parents say (no disrespect) and just ask her out.