well........he seems to b careless about others,and i never annoy him wit my love and all this stuff.....he doesnt know my face-the reason,i luv him so much dat im afraid he ll ask me 2 leave him alone,im 16 and he is 19.we hav similar style and all.......u will ask how i know....i did everything wat was possible to get his phone nomber and to find out many other things.wen i c him i luk down...coz ....i dont even know y....but i never went out with some1,and the reason is HIM!!i feel like cheatin on him if i say yes to other guys=(.dont try to give an advice like''move on girl...''coz dat is not wat i need,and anyway its impossible.wat can i do to become closer with him,if im always hidin myself?
2006-08-27 10:11:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sure you dont believe me but i went through the EXACT same thing last year
and guess what, i did not ask him out, or even look at him (i hide to) and to this day i still think about him, and my feelings for him have never faded
and i still hope that he mite appear in front of me and tell me he feels the same way (even though i moved ot a diffeerent country)
but he wont
i have made a decision to just "let it burn"
dont be like me (cos its pathetic)
i dont know where to find the courage to do this but you MUST do it, or you'll regret not doing it for a long time
i dont know, try to get in to his circles, the people that helped you with your info about him and his number and stuff, hang with them and they might lead you to him
there is a possibility of rejection, and it could/will be SO hard if he says no, but at least you would have tried,
what doesnt kill you makes you stronger, and you would have learned al lot about youreslf in the process
Confidence (for you i will) by Teddy Gieger, its a song, one of my faves and Teddy is kind of cute! i dont know if you know it but listen to it, it might enocourage you
go for it, good luck, spread the love!!!!
2006-08-27 10:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by punkrockprincess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive had ur problem an dont listen 2 ppl wen they say u cant luv sum1 if u dnt no them cus its not tru. all u can do is try make him notice u even if it takes a long tym it will be worth it in the end. wen u c him jus say hi r u ok what u been up2? that will start the convo off and after that ul feel beta and asif u can talk 2 him more which U CAN!! just believe in urself and think of how u can talk 2 him or for him 2 notice u and wham before u no it ur always tlkin. but 2 get him 2 like u ul have 2 get past the talkin stage and start bein urself and ask him if he wnts 2 go cinema wit u an m8s (at first so it dont luk obvius 2 him!!)
if he says no then ask anuva tym but if still no wait a week or so and ask again ok.u cant make him love u the way u luv him u can only show him how much u care. dont get all clingy on him or stlk him just act kl wen u c him and ul soon adapt 2 seein him often witout feelin nervous as much.
i fink ul be fine becus i can c u tryin an goin for it cus its simple really!! if i can then u can and i bet im more shy than u around lads lol plus im older(18).dont worry bout thinkin of what 2 say to him cus all u gta say is hi and r u ok and itl flow from ther =)trust me! good luck but u dnt need luck cus ur gna do it aint u girl ;)
2006-08-27 10:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by ♥abi♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello skatergirl,
i know just how you feel, i have been there in my youth. and there is nothing you can do about it except hope that he notices you...he may have done already but not know what to do about it. the age gap between you is perfect but he may feel that you are to young for him but this will change as he grows up, 19 year old men are not usually as mature as girls.
just continue to be around so he can see you but not 'stalking' him that would spook him out.
this is not just a problem of the young , my 60 year old neighbour is in love with a 35 year old woman but she gets spooked when he gets too intense...........he is waiting faithfully and hoping.
this is not much help to you but its all i can think to say.
2006-08-27 11:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sit there and sulk about how you don't know what to do. There's so many things you CAN do, you just have to test them out. If you don't take action quickly, I bet you he's not going to be available anymore. I mean, he's 19, and doesn't have a clue about you either. Do SOMETHING at least.
2006-08-27 10:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt even know you its not love i can guarantee that he probably will think u are desperate for looking for his number in this way. Take it slowly and ask yourself if you didnt know him and he was doing what you are would you like it or be paranoid about it? Take it your time and talk to him! Get to know him! Remember take it slow and wait until he notices you
2006-08-27 11:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by Selene Corvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to him and ask him to help you with something you know he likes to do, since you believe you have the same styles and areas of interest. And remember, you can't truly love someone if you don't really know them.
2006-08-27 10:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by polecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up 2 the person and say hi 2 him and start talking 2 him
2006-08-27 10:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff Hardys Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love someone if he doesn't even know you!
Your details were very confusing.
2006-08-27 10:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ask him out, I'll do it for you!!!! What have you got to lose? Don't waste your life hoping he'll see you, GO GIT HIM GURL!!!!
2006-08-27 10:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by Pixxxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't love someone that dozn't even know u
2006-08-27 10:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋