she ia not ready for a register marriage as she feels its against her religion. she is also scared.
2006-08-27 10:10:12 · 44 answers · asked by rosy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If she is so attached to her religion, she is not in love with you. It is only a pretext. She wants to perform a great religious deed according to the teachings of Islam, by getting you converted to Islam. If you are a fool, you fall into her trap; or else you marry her and get her converted. After marriage, if she does not agree forget her. **** and forget, she does not deserve you.
2006-08-29 05:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that some muslim girls are killed for dating a non muslim? Muslim females are not allowed to marry a man who isn't a muslim unless or untill he is a rich & powerful e.g. Indian actors & politician.
However, a Muslim man on the other hand can marry a non muslim woman without even not converting her religion.
2006-08-27 23:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by sach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont even think of converting.. coz it will lead to probs later in life.. for e.g. ur eating habits r totally different.. nd if u convert to islam n get into her family, u will be expected to consume whatever they do.. beef being their utmost priority 4 food.. it may sound crude.. but this is a fact.. if u r a vege (which jains normally r) i would advice u.. plz do not change that..
my sister converted to islam when she married a muslim guy.. now she faces quite a few probs... their lifestyle, way of thinking will be totally diff from urs.. u may feel left out n may regret..
then again on the other hand if u guys love each other n plan to life seperate.. alone.. then it would be much easier.. since that family pressure will not come inbetween.. trust me dude.. its tough to handle muslim inlaws.. i've seen it...
2006-08-27 20:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Muslim, and i will tell u something, Muslim woman cannot marry non-Muslim man because the non-Muslim man don't believe in her religion or his prophet so how can he be a good husband for her?, and i say this for u don't just convert into Muslim to marry ur beloved one, convert to a Muslim because u love to be a Muslim
2006-08-27 10:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nightingale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very clear, you are Loving THAT Muslim Girl unconditionally, BUT that Girl has Placed a condition between you & her, about converting to ISLAM> That means she did not REALLY Love you, For your information ' In Islam, it is taught that, if you convert a person from different religion to Islam and then marry with him, You will go to heaven and Allah will like you very much '
Please think on this issue carefully, That Girl is making her way to heaven....... But you will never be HAPPY !
2006-08-27 11:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by STAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind.No religion should come inbetween lovers. however society has formed rules and regulations.Jains have liberal outlook whereas muslims are strict.If you feel you can no longer live without this girl,then you think of converting or else you can be true friends for life
2006-08-28 06:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by toliagoldstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dunt DifferenTiate LOVE WITH RELIGION OR CASTE SYSTEM ATLEST......
Atleast Keep the PURE LOVE ........Away from This Rubbish Divisions of Society. ppls are getting mad due to all such caste systems.... and forgot the meaning of RELIGION which mean PATH tOWARDS GOD ...
this s the Reason Y GOD Has created Many Religions So To provide MAny religions for the people Towards Him....
Kindly make Ur spouse Undersatnd this,,,,,,ths will surely make him more mentally more mature and make her heart in The right position towards SOCIAL EVILS.
2006-08-27 17:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by jass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...sorry, if she is going to put her religion first, as most muslims do, then she isn't the woman for you. Just think about all the things that would happen in the future where her religion would take precedence over your well-being and happiness.
Say bye bye...it'll be tough...but it's the way it should be if she is like this. Live and learn mate.
2006-08-27 10:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by MotorCityMadman 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I mean what's up with this Muslim rules? You can worship your religion and still love her. Why do you have to convert just to marry her? I think she wants to have a whole control of you. Think about it, It's not a good idea. MARRIAGE IS BASED ON LOVE NOT RELIGION.
2006-08-27 10:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by guilty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As far as I know,Muslim girls usually convert when they marry a man of different religion.
If she doesn't want to do that,then you both keep your religions;I am sure you will be happy.
But not her,than her surrounding is extremely not willing to accept any other religion....
I suggest you marry her and take her faraway from her country where religion isn't so important.
2006-08-27 13:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by sandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋