developed a relashionship with her, more than just friends. shes 19 im 29, but we built a good relashiobship in the span of a year. i suffer with mental health probs but ive not told her that, other than that i get down and have low days, i have mood dips, low self esteem probs, racin thoughts, anxiety and anger issues. but recentley she keeps speaking to me like someone youd feeel sorry for or a close friend, not like a partner. she'll say ' awwww your a sweetie' or say in mid talkin ' ill brb gotta help put the groceries away' and disappear. shell say 'i love ya lots' like you would talk to a good friend not a PARTNER, and i cant help but think shes being shafted by a healthy fellow canadian guy. shes from canada.i thought she thought of me as a boyfriend potential partner?
2006-08-27 09:39:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You cannot be a partner to a person you've never physically met. You may have developed a close relationship of sorts but you must be practical and understand the distance issue and the non physical restraints. Be forthright and discuss it with her. It's something you need to know.
2006-08-27 09:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start tellin HER that it aint workin out..and that does she want YOU to start dating other girls..you know, kinda call her bluff...and be prepared for what she says...if she gets upset, then she is immature and playing with your emotions..if she tells you to go ahead,..tell her you already have a new friend, and thank her for being so understanding LOL...sheesh, a good lookin guy like you probably are should just move on...but it is hard when you are sentimental and have a heart, I know...Good luck my friend, the ball is really in your court...and to those people who frown on the fact that you met her on line? my Best friend in the world and I have been best friends now for four years, we met on line, exchanged photos, and adore each other...and have never met in person. You can get quite close to a person when you converse everyday for a year, two and three times a day. and tell each other how much you care...I have no doubt that this is probably very depressing for the person to all of a sudden change....
2006-08-27 09:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one she is only 19 what did you expect? And 2nd you met her on line that should of gave you a clue right their. find someone your own age and that you can see in person on a regular basic and stay away from the on line chats
2006-08-27 09:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by parrotsarenoisy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't expect to be dating on the internet. If you haven't met in person, then she is nothing more than a friend.
2006-08-27 09:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your question is but it sounds like you've been making many assumptions about that relationship that weren't true... You may need to clarify your relationship with her directly.
2006-08-27 09:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that, what a drag :-( Plenty of fish in the sea, though!
2006-08-27 09:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you my friend are a loser--get a life--get off the net and into the real world
2006-08-27 09:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by keepingthefaith 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How can it be your girlfriend if you never met her?
2006-08-27 09:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋