2006-08-27 09:36:48 · 33 answers · asked by Bu Ang 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Remember that men are visual beings. We like to see things, ie: our sexual emotions come from sight. I don't think that you should be worried, but talk to him and in a clear non-threatening fashion tell him that his behavior has made you a little uncomfortable and you want his attention. Try being more affectionate? I'm not certain of your situation, but this is the best advice I have to offer at the moment. I don't think that he's being abnormal, just a tad inappropriate. Good luck
2006-08-27 09:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Porterhouse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he looks at them while you are with him, well, this I would find disrespectful and I would not like it. If this is just a general question, saying that he appreciates the view of curvaceous beautiful woman, then no.
2006-08-27 09:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Silva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watching? Yes, I would be a little concerned. That's a lust issue. He shouldn't be looking at anything that's going to tempt him and if he's enjoying himself often and getting turned on to other women, this is mental adultery.
Looking or glancing is one thing, but staring and "watching" is playing with fire and may manifest into physical action.
2006-08-27 09:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where he is watching them. If you mean on a TV show you are watching...no dont worry. If you mean a glance at a pretty girl when you are out...no dont worry. If you mean when you are together somewhere and he can't focus on you for looking at other women then yes, there is a problem. m
2006-08-27 10:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. I am married to a woman who I love with all my heart, and she catches me looking at other women (black, white, Hispanic, Asian, you name it) all the time. If he's just looking at women indiscriminately, I wouldn't be too worried about it. However, if it's a particular type of woman, then I'd pull him aside, especially if that particular type happens to be something you're not.
Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu... LOL
2006-08-27 09:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on when, why... if they are cheerleaders at a football game its natural. if its every single woman who walks by, then thats bad. if its mroe than just natural noticing of attractive people, then talk with him. if he continues to do it be firm in your dislike o9f it.
if you are shopping together and you see him oggling without care for your feelings, walk awayl tell him he can do the shopping alone. enforce the idea that its not fair to you, and be vocal (but calm) about the fact that it upsets you.
when talking to him about it, give him a little bit of "i can understand xyz" to make him feel that you are not outright condemning him, so he doesn't just close up and just not listen. but then say, "but *xyz* is just unacceptable."
if that doesn't work... just be obvious about checking out other men. if it annoys him and he says so, just say, "well don't yo ulook at other women? I'll stop when you stop, baby."
2006-08-27 09:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by ChaChaChingThing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All straight men enjoy looking at beautiful women, they just don't like to tell their wives. If your relationship is ok trust him not to do anything more than look.
2006-08-27 09:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's faithful I wouldn't worry. Most men spend their lives lusting after the women they find beautiful.
2006-08-27 09:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men boyfriends fiancees husbands do. Its when they touch that it becomes a problem. How about letting him notice you look at handsome men too. The real sexy ones
2006-08-27 09:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By watching, if you mean on TV or DVD or even in passing, I think you're fine. After all, you don't check out guys? No harm in window shopping.
2006-08-27 09:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋