Okay, this is the story. One month ago i slept with this girl and today I found out she is pregnant. The problem is I also slept with her friend that lives next door and kind of "came" loose inside of her, so now she is probably pregnant too. I will get results from her soon. I am now probably going to leave them because I am stressed out, so I am moving to ohio. Help me from moving!
2006-08-27 09:31:14 · 7 answers · asked by workereleven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Running doesn't solve problems, it just creates new ones. No offense to the ladies in question but once you know for sure if lady # 2 is pregnant or not & if she is, I'd politely & as diplomatically as possible ask them both to agree to paternity tests once the children are born. I think you have the right to know 100% if they are YOUR children to start with. Next, if either or both are, then stand up & be a man, do all that you can to help them (unless either of them do choose to have abortions or in the end decide to put up for adoption). I'd say if they refuse to have the paternity tests, then you should find out what your legal rights & responsiblities are because if you run or even it you stay, you might be responsible somewhere down the road it & might get a lot more costly & more embarrasing. And hey, you just might discover some truly great blessings from your child or children if you are the Dad & can stay involved in their life/lives.
Good luck!
2006-08-27 09:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why move? You now have some responsibility. I grew up without my dad. IT sucks! I started having sex when I was 14 and between then and the age of 19 I slept with alot of guys. I needed a guy in my life and I just kept going from one to the next. If I would of had my dad I think things would have turned alot different in my life. I think I probably would have gone to college instead of living from paycheck to paycheck. Think about your
kid(s) not yourself. You did the deed now you have to share the consequences. Own up to what you did
2006-08-27 16:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your a sick kid. You should have used protection! You did her friend thats also sick. And you getting them both pregnant will do allot of damage on you and them both. This ladies and gentleman is why we don't screw around untill were married. Then if something happens their won't be this problem that this child is in. May god bless you the girls you slept with and the children that they may have.
Amen
2006-08-27 17:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have 3 choices. Run and be a coward. Stay and take responsability for your actions and help them out, or ask them to have abortions (although obviously thats their call). Next time use some common sense.
Don't be a fool, wrap your tool!
2006-08-27 16:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You're gonna have to pay TONS for child support. How about using protection next time and using it correctly!?
2006-08-27 16:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break out the waders!
2006-08-27 16:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by Buck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb A S S.................................
2006-08-27 16:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by got_shots 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋