so this guy and i were dating and we broke up and he was with this other girl and then they broke up about 2 years ago and so we dated again... but he was using me and he broke up with me and then he went back out with her.... last year i went out with him again but i ended up breaking up with him because i chested and he went back to the other girl....now if you're still with me... him and this other girl are like physco break up madness and they have broken up many times and he keeps running back to me but ever since the last time i have said no .. mainly because im not gonna waste my time when all he does is date her right after i turn him down. but he hasnt gone back to her and actually he moved to get away from her. i havent been talking to him lately because i wanna be down with it... i guess my question is what do you think of the situation?
2006-08-27 09:29:28 · 9 answers · asked by just_adorable_pink_love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry that was supposed to say cheated
2006-08-27 09:57:42 · update #1
ohh no we arent having sex
2006-08-28 08:01:20 · update #2
Its quite obvious that this guy of yours is really having good time with the two of you.You must have dumped him when you realised he was using you.For if you were firm in your decision he would not have come back to you again.Since you were without bf and confused he was able to use you at will.But lets not worry about the past.You have made a very good decision.Saying "NO" when it really matters because all this time he was just using you.Its all the more heartening that you have taken hold of yourself again and able to think rationale.The very fact that you were able to see through the situation that he invariably goes to date the other girl right after you turn him down and not to waste anymore time on him shows you have indeed handled the situation well so far.Just stop seeing him.Move on.The worst part of your life is over.Now the best part is yet to come.Its high time you get a better and more deserving guy worthy of you.Get a new boyfriend and move on with life.You must have done this earlier but no use thinking of past.
So what are you waiting for?Hunt for Mr.Right and start a fresh life.Good luck.
2006-08-28 08:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's confused. He wants both worlds, you and the other woman. He goes with one girl and when it doesn't work out he runs to you. He wants security, he wants a woman in his life constantly. You're right to be done with him. Sooner or later he'll realize that he can be alone without a woman for a while. He'll also realize that he can't just use women and you so he isn't alone.
Yet another guy that takes the standards of decent guys to a lower level.
2006-08-28 15:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by shinuyugi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting all your time and energy with this guy? It sounds like all he's doing is causing you grief and heartache. Also if your having sex you could be exposed to a number of STD's including AIDS. For your mental and physical health stay away from him.
2006-08-28 14:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by cranky_gut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do yourself a favor and stay away!! He knows that no matter what he pulls you'll take him back. There's no respect. Life is too short to waste time on a spineless cheater.
2006-08-28 15:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by imagr00vychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a mess. A drama king. Stay away from it all. There is some one else waiting for you who you aren't seeing because you are watching the soap opera that is this guy. Leave him and his psycho yo-yo head games.
2006-08-27 16:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree with her up above me and i would say to stay away from that and actually find a guy who likes your for who you are!!!!
Good Luck!!!
2006-08-28 14:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly find someone else and quit wasting your time on him.
2006-08-28 15:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by jingles_200 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woof. move on, please. with all the hooking up and breaking up you just mentioned, neither of you is ready for a committed relationship with each other. find someone who appreciates you and be with them
2006-08-28 14:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on with your life. Forget him.
2006-08-28 15:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋