Why should men bother with trying to communicate with women anyway?

Question

It's apparently true that most of you, think we're all dogs, only want sex and don't believe anything we say anyway. I remember telling my wife once that it was raining outside and she waited for someone else to say it before believing me. If I was working late, I'd call to tell her and she'd call me back at the office to "confirm it". If a guy says something you, why do you have to ask your girlfriends advice and opinions beforehand. What's up with that?

Do you really not trust the guy or yourselves? Are you really that paranoid?

Answer 1

Maybe something you did in a past make her didn't put her whole trust in you...
I don't do that to my husband thou.. And no... I don't assume all men are dogs.. But then in my theory.. since men are dogs and women are b*tches.. Would that make us even now?? :)
It's true that guyz tend to ask their wives/gfs for advice b/c we think deep.. :) or else.. what's the point..
Cheer up and be happy.. If she doesn't trust you.. there's no point of having the relationship..
Best wishes..

Answer 2

Did you lie about little things perhaps - little white lies - that made her question your overall honesty? If you didn't, someone else did...maybe another boyfriend or even Dad. You get to pay for it unfortunately.

I thought I'd found an honest man but I've recently learned that my husband is quite an accomplished liar. When you're in a relationship you really have to trust the person. When you put your trust in someone they sometimes let you down. You just have to take risks in life. I'm not going to stop trusting people myself - I have to believe that there are honest people - including men - out there. Hopefully your wife will stop being so paranoid but it's hard when everyone around you is getting burned.

Answer 3

You should do it because you have to. I don't know about your wife's situation, but she seems to not trust you, so whether or not you gave her a reason for that, you should talk about the issue of trust in your relationship, and try to figure out how to build that trust.

As for women asking girlfriends for advice and opinions on what guys say, we just like to gab with our girlfriends about everything, and while we've been told that guys just say what they are thinking and are strightforward, we as women often code what we say, so when you say "the sky is blue" we analyze and interpret your "real" thoughts and feelings until we get that you were really trying to tell us "I love you" or somthing equally unrelated ; )

Answer 4

Well, I am kinda confused at the judgment you just passed there... I mean, yeah women can be real stinky when it comes to these kinda issues and they might as well treat us men like dogs!

Well, what you can do is, just confront her. What else can you do?! I know you are kinda upset. But honestly, this needs to be expressed. She just can't get away with treating you like that.

America's society has surely changed. But going back to Biblical times and looking at the roots, a wife must learn to trust and respect her husband, who is, technically, the head of the house.

Answer 5

I hear women at work all the time having conversations filled with factual inaccuracies. I never correct them because they just get angry. I have given up trying to communicate with the women that are currently in my life.

Answer 6

IF you don't talk to them, they get mad and accuse you of thinking of another woman. IF you share with them, they lose respect for you because you do NOT act like a man....I give up, to hell with them all. They get horny and come knocking...that is good enough for me. Let them stew in their own juices, some women just cannot be happy with anything. accept it as a law and move on with your life.

Answer 7

i myself do no longer care. If i recognize she has a softer part to her character, it truly is nice. yet while all she does is swear and and her character is often grotesque, then it truly is no longer very woman like.