that your partner doesnt know about? How much is it around?
If you are a Stay at home mom, how do you stash without your husband knowing about it?
2006-08-27 08:46:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Yes. My ex hub went crack head on and off after a few years.....I would take cash out to buy everything and always took out more than I needed. Most of the time I cleaned the account out and put it in another as soon as he would deposit money every week. I left enough for him to buy gas and eat lunch. I didn't keep a bank card or check from that account in the house when I finally wised up and opened another. I had the statement sent somewhere else. If I needed money I could write a counter check at the bank and cash it. I had to make sure the bills were paid and groceries bought somehow. It was the only way to do it. He couldn't come to me and tell me he needed money to buy coke/crack and if he needed something else I went and got it. Sucks..I tried to get him to straighten out but that was pointless.
It is always a good idea if you think something might happen to your marriage and him leave you and the kids without a dime. It happens to the best of them. I didn't hide what I did out of greed. I did it for my household and kids. It's always a good idea to have enough put back to pay a couple months bills and food...gives you enough time to get a job, move if you need to...etc. You work too if you have kids, keep house, and take care of him.
If things go well with him and the money builds up enough that you can do something with part of it. You can always take him on a suprise vacation.
2006-08-27 09:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by jescl32 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom always told me to, but I dont. I do all the finances and pay all the bills. He doens't even know about all the accounts we have so if something ever happened I'd have the money out in a second. I think it's a good idea for all women to have some money out to the side just in case. My mother's mother told her to do that and she didn't listen, and then one day my dad left with the money. She could have really have used a secret stash to pay for groceries.
2006-08-27 08:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a man, I hope that all you women in a serious relationship/ marriage stash away money anyway you can. Because when your man comes to you and says "honey. I messed up", you can say don't worry I got your back, and at least for me that's would make me love her all the more. And if your man can't handle you having your "own money" you got a stash to get out with!
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2016-05-18 08:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did. But I don't do things like that now. The reason why I did was because I didn't know whether or not that the relationship I was in was worth being in. The reason why I don't now, is because I grew up and knew that what I was doing was wrong, that I shouldn't keep things a secret in our relationship. We share, and things seem to be good so far.
2006-08-27 09:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This stay at home mom has never thought about having a secret stash............of "anything" for that matter. Hmmmmm. Nahhh, not my style. What would be the purpose of having "secret money"?
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2006-08-27 08:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yep I hide it in his bank account. I dont think he even knows were his bank is. I'm trying to save up enough money that he doesnt know about so that we can go to Vegas next year on his b-day.
2006-08-27 08:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! I couldn't stand keeping secrets from my husband. he is also my best friend. We are in this together!
2006-08-31 03:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Yvonne D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I don't hide anything from my husband and I wouldn't want him too
2006-08-27 14:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by monroe1172002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I keep moving it around.
2006-08-27 09:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by Nails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋