i met this guy online. he is sooo sweet and we really like each other BUT i have been lying about who i was! i said i was older and looked completely different. i did it as a joke and i never meant to meet anyone. i REALLY like him and he really wants to meet me. i have tried to get rid of him but he always comes back. he says that he loves me for my personality (i didn't change that!!) i don't know whether to tell him the truth. i cant just drop speaking to him cos i like him to much and it doesn't work!
Please tell me what i should do as i really can't decide!
2006-08-27 08:34:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st and foremost, quit lying. tell him the truth, and except whatever happens
2006-08-27 08:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned the hard way as you did I told a lie about my age to a dear friend now she wonders if I lie about other stuff. And Cannot ever take that back. Just come out and be honest from this day forward with him. Best you can do God Bless you Dear.
2006-08-27 08:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by ted b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he really likes you, and if he does, then its ok to tell him the truth but first find out what's happening to him first, like if he is seeing another girl or if he isn't honest either, but seems like he really likes you, cuz he keeps on comming back to you and really wants to meet you, then just tell him the truth that you were just playing around and never meant to meet anyone. i think he would understand. plus, he seems to really want to be with you so just tell him the truth and he will understand
2006-08-27 09:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that genuine, even if if it truly is god that sucks for you, have you ever tried status as much as them, i recommend you are able to combat back and get up for your self. Or attempt to get it on tape, so which you have evidence of what they are doing, then once you attempt to tell your confirm's they are going to see the tape and believe you. basically cover it at the back of some books or something the place they are in a position to't see it, inspite of the undeniable fact that it may nonetheless tape.
2016-11-05 21:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him if he would love u no matter what & make him promise that & then tell him.& if ur age difference is like 4 years to 5 then he should still except u.
2006-08-27 08:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never meet someone online....never ever meet the person!! he could be lying about himself also...trust me....just tell him the truth and tell him to leave you alone...dont tell him anything personal about yourself!! be safe
2006-08-27 08:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by *Hello* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why lie,he'll like you just for you,lying never gets you anywhere be honest that's always the best GOOD LUCK
2006-08-27 08:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit early while it's relatively fresh.
you should mention in your question about your age and was the picture you put up looks better than you actually are. because those factors matter.
2006-08-27 08:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth
the truth shall set you free
2006-08-27 08:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. If he really cares about you he will understand.
2006-08-27 08:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋