I was diagnosed with acute heart attacks and i just turned 16 on july fourth the thing that is scarying him is the fact that i could die before him and i am scaredthat i might have a heart attack with him if i go on a date with him last night and everything went smooth and i am scared that if i have a heart attack it is going to scare him to death.He asked me what would he do if i died from the heart attack he said he would =nt be able to live without me so what should i do should i break up with him or should i just keep our relationship where it is we have been going out for a while and he has already asked me to marry him nut we can;t get married until we hit 18 what should i day he asked me in hindi
2006-08-27 08:08:14 · 5 answers · asked by ashleysoccergoalie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All you can do is take life one day at a time.. I would not make any rushed decisions at this point. Don't break up and don't sit and hide in your room. No body is promised tomorrow anyway. If God decided to take our Sun away tomorrow then no one would have to worry about their problems because earth and people would die out in a short amount of time. Just pray and ask God to help you thru this difficult time... Medical science now is so great that many people have heart attacks and live long lives with pace makers, heart transplants, proper diet and taking care of themselves. This may not be a death sentence so stop reacting that way. I am sure you have checked with your Doctors and get the best advise. Don't chase your boyfriend or your friends away because of fear. Be happy and enjoy each day and don't be so down that people will not want to come around you.
2006-08-27 08:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your doctor say? And more than that, how do you feel? It sounds like learning about your heart problems has scared you. So when you told your boy, it scared him as well. I know this is hard, but live your life the way you want it. No-one gets to know what will happen whenever.
You shouldn't have to worry about the problems that might occur. And maybe, when you know how to make changes to save your life, your boyfriend will do everything in his power to support you.
This isn't do or die. This is just a doctor's opinion.
2006-08-27 15:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by carmella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I'm truly sorry about your diagnosis
sounds like you guys really love each other and love like that is so hard to find nowadays
i would say you should stay with him and try to be happy
hope thing work out for the best
2006-08-27 15:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your man is just looking for an excuse to date other people.
2006-08-27 15:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to ur heart.
2006-08-27 15:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋