I am 17 years old. No boy has ever touched me down below. I would like to lose my virginity. What is the best way? Please, describe the process for me. This is a serious question. Please, help me. Thanks.
Sue
2006-08-27 08:02:59 · 18 answers · asked by Sue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks to all of you for your concerns and your information. I can't decide on who gave the best answer so I will let you guys decide which is the best answer. Thanks, again.
Sue
2006-08-27 08:25:20 · update #1
I dont think your ready, just wait your only 17
2006-08-27 08:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whats your hurry. Your not missing anything by rushing into it. Wait until you meet that someone special and let it happen naturally if you try to set it up, it will just turn out to be a big disappointment. Dont think of it as losing your virginity.... think of it as giving up your virginity to someone who truly cares about you and loves you. Its not a race. it will only make it that much more memorable if you wait until the time is right.
2006-08-27 15:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you crazy girl. Don't be in a rush. This is the most important time of your life. Give it out on a plate and he wont appreciate it nor will you. Common think this one out at least. Once the deed is done there is no turning back. This needs to be done out of love not for the sake of it. DONT DO IT!! Wait till Mr Right comes along.
2006-08-27 15:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know it's a concern for everyone at your age (god i sound old, I'm only 24, honest), male or female, but try not to worry about it. The time will come, trust me. Don't rush it. Sex is good, but the first time is usually a disappointment, so don't get hung up on it, just get on with life and it'll happen when it happens.
Most teenagers think it'll never happen, but it will.
2006-08-27 15:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen to me girl, I don't know if you are for real but I am suggesting that you "keep your virginity for your husband" where you are sure that you are loved and respected when he makes love to you and not some "loser" who just wants to be your first. Give your virginity to someone who values you. Who is committed to making you his wife and the love of his life. I am telling you this because I gave mine up at age 24, and I don't think there is anything I regret more. After I gave him this precious gift........he walked. Don't let that happen to you. Plz wait....It will be so worth it!!!
2006-08-27 15:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um...well, every girl is different. Please use protection. But I'd tell him to start out with foreplay with u. U know, kissing, making out, petting, etc....Then he should pet u down there with his hands...and after a while, u'll be moist down there, so he can finger u. U'll just get more moist...and then when there's a lot of juice down there(he'd probably be throbing at this point to), he can stick it in(u'll really want him to by this point), but tell him to go slow. Since it is ur first time, it pays to go slow and be gentle...because even if ur ready down there, u'll only open up so much...and besides, it'll feel better for u.
2006-08-27 15:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by george 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please save yourself for someone who you truly love and someone who truly loves you.
There are plenty of boys who will gladly do that with you - you won't have to look very far.
Once you lose your virginity - it's gone forever. And that piece of your life that should be a precious memory and special gift to someone you love (your husband) will be destroyed...
Please give this some serious thought.
2006-08-27 15:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kare♥Bear 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I WOULD SAY , IF YOU FIND SOMEONE WHO YOU THINK OR KNOW WOULD BE GENTLE , CARING , AND CONSIDERATE ENOUGH TO TAKE YOU THROUGH IT SLOWLY , AND EASILY , AND RESPECTS YOU ENOUGH NOT TO MAKE IT A LOCKER ROOM STORY LATER ON ETC , SOMEONE YOU TRUST , LET THEM BE THE ONE...BUT OVERALL , IT MIGHT BE BETTER TO WAIT UNTIL YOU FEEL THE TIME IS RIGHT WITH JUST THE RIGHT PERSON , AND ONLY YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DECIDE WHEN , WHERE , WHO , IS RIGHT FOR YOU.....GOOD LUCK , AND USE PROTECTION !....GR1M
2006-08-27 15:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by (\ G®1M R34|Dê® /) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I am 17 too and I am a virgin as well and feel the same way. First of all I must ask have u touched yourself??
2006-08-27 15:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go out and pull someone. If you are a girl then its much easier to get laid then if your a guy, all you need to do is show some skin and flirt.
2006-08-27 15:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋