got cheated on. going to see the d-bag. i've never kicked a guy anywhere let alone there, but it seems like the right thing to do even if my mother would dissagree. i know its not self defense, but if he is unrepentent and a clear shot opens, i just might. what do you think?
2006-08-27 07:31:43 · 33 answers · asked by x o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well before you do put the shoe on the other foot.
is it ok for a man to kick a women in the crotch if she was cheating.
ITS ALL THE SAME IN LOVE AND WAR
2006-08-27 07:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going to see him? What do you care if he repents or not? Its done and nothing that can be done or said changes anything. Assaulting him does nothing but get you in trouble. I think you should absolutely NOT go see him in the first place. Who cares what lame excuses he comes up with? I guarantee that you aren't going to get the actual truth which boils down to 'my penis is more important to me than you are and it runs my life' and nothing he says is going to make you feel any better. He has shown you beyond a shadow of a doubt his character, BELIEVE IT! He has proven that he lacks self control and that he has poor impulse control and is unable to consider consequences before he does things, basically he's immature and still behaves like a child...why would you bother to waste another minute of your life on someone like that, unless of course those things are on your list of what you want in a partner!
The first thing to do in a situation like this is realize there is a pattern to the healing process, first there is a lot of anger, second there may be a period when you have sex with your partner a lot in order to 'stake your claim' or win your partner back, then the real affects of what has happened set in and thats when you know whether it is something you can deal with or not. I didn't realize this and made mistakes and big decisions while still going through this process and they turned out to be the wrong decisions. I feel that if I had known about this pattern I could have seen things more clearly.
2006-08-27 07:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, it's funny to call a guy a d-bag when only girls use them. Secondly, sure, go ahead and kick him in the balls. Be prepared for the consequences.
2006-08-27 07:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could go to jail for assault and battery. It is best to either forgive his cheating and move on or just move on without him if he is not going to change. He has hurt you and the normal reaction is to strike back. Be a bigger and better person and do not lower yourself to committing a crime. Why should you sit in jail, mess up your future over a "Cheating Pig"?
2006-08-27 07:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by tek1017 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you want to go to jail or be sued. If you really had a good relationship how could it have gotten to this stage without you knowing? I am sure you can think of a better way to pay him back.
2006-08-27 07:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by lobo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Although it might feel good (for you..lol)..It's not worth it, he isn't worth it.. Walk away with your held high and the best revenge is always for you to be HAPPY!
So head on out there and be happy.. He is a jerk and a fool..just don't let him beg his way back into your life, and he will, they always do!
2006-08-29 00:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and when he regains his feet, do you really want him to find you alone and punch you in the head?
Do not provoke a man...they can be very dangerous. If you think, he's not the type to punch you, or slap you, or slash your tires, he'll get his new little wh0re to do it for him.
Best revenge: Live well...and make your next boyfriend kick his @$$.
2006-08-27 07:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i completely agree that u should kickem and this is a guys point of view
but remember if u did the same thing would it be alright to get kicked?
2006-08-27 08:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, but ONLY if you caught him in the act and he admits it and isn't sorry.
1) It could be a lie, maybe not true, so if you didn't catch him, you don't know for sure.
2) If he at least has the decency to try to lie out of it, he has some respect for you.
3) If he is sorry and seems to want to reconcile, you could hurt him worse by refusing to forgive and dumping him.
2006-08-27 07:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No, absolutely not. Take a close look at yourself. I'm sure that you're the one to blame for him cheating.
2006-08-27 07:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by HughGRection 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋