I've always heard a guy likes challenge and mystery. Well giving mixed signals is sort of a challenge and mystery, right?? If not, what does a guy like?
2006-08-27 07:08:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Playful mixed signals are fun - they're like friends teasing each other and pretending to hate eachother. If you say "Why are you looking at me like that you perv?" then give us one of those bone-dissolving eyeballs-to-toes-to-eyeballs scans, we'll know you're still digging us. And it's ok to slow guys down as long as you show you're still into them.
What makes us hate you is when you act interested, then don't return calls or act uninterested later. We'll think that we're just a game for you, and you're laughing to your friends about us when we're not around. Guys are really, really afraid of this, and we feel horrible when we find out that happened to us. Or we'll think we're your "backup plan" if you can't get anything better. That's a good way to get dumped.
If you're just confused and unsure how you feel, just let us know, and we'll give you space. You can even say that sorta thing by e-mail if you don't want to talk to us. "I'm sorry, I'm just not sure how I feel right now - could you give me a few days?"
2006-08-27 08:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by Arbor Dude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a huge difference between mixed signals and a challenge. Mixed signals leads you to believe they like you one minute and not the next. A challenge is the pleasure of know you both want each other, but can you have it?
2006-08-27 07:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by LaDonna J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way ! These days girls are not serious in their relationships, giving mixed signals. As a result of which boys are left stranded ! Guys like seriousness now adays coz emotions are deeply involved in relations .
2006-08-27 07:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by anil m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoah, I don't know who is giving you advice, but NO. I am a female, and I'm always up front and honest. Game playing and dancing around the truth will leave you alone, hun. Guys are SIMPLE (no offense) they want to meet you, go on a date, get a hug/kiss/whatever. They like to know what they expect and where things are going. But there is no need to make it complex. Seriously, guys are not that hard to figure out once we girls get a hold of ourselves and stop playing those "if he likes me he will call me" or "I'll pretend i hate him even though he makes my heart flutter" games.
Really, we are better than that, yes?
2006-08-27 07:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by jobie023 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO!!!!!! Because then we get confused and think the girl is not serious. Or she is acting like she likes you so she doesn't hurt your feelings, but sometimes she shows how she really feels. It's okay for a bit at first, but after awhile the guy is going to wanna give up. I like it for the girl to be straightforward and honest, I don't like to play games. Show me if you're interested or not so I can decide to go out with you or move on!
2006-08-27 07:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
challenge and mystery can be fun. but not with mixed signals. its annoying and we can't figure out what u want out of us.
2006-08-27 07:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand when a girl gives mixed signals. Sick of the head games. Many act like they want to get fvcked, and when I make a move, they're all like "what a filthy pervert." Tired of the B.S.
2006-08-27 07:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by FrozenCloud 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A mystery? Mixed signals is more like torture. Imagine a guy you like showing interest at one point, and then not at another and again and again and again. You'd be posting shet on here "does this guy damn like me or not?!!!?" It'll drive him insane. I don't think anyone really likes those damn games.
2006-08-27 07:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he likes you, 1) he got pissed when your friends stood you up, because he wants you to know that he would never do that to you and come on, he drove 5 miles for you! 2) When you talk to a guy (who likes you) about other guys, he is going to bash on him and start dissing him, because he wants you to like him and tell you that he is the better choice for you, then he will talk about other girls to make you jealous. He maybe is trying to forget about liking you, that's why he maybe doesn't talk to you anymore. Do you like him? Ask him to go to the movies or lunch and get get to know him!
2016-03-26 21:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find mixed signals confusing. I don't like them.
2006-08-27 07:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋