all my friends are going to different middle schools and i dont want to be alone.
2006-08-27 06:56:56 · 14 answers · asked by Jayleen Y 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
I remember I was too. And I am an old person. Always works out, just be yourself.
2006-08-27 06:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Stan the answer Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky in some ways. At each level of education, you will find that some friends do not fit your lifestyle, or outlook on life. These differences can be a great strength and balance for you. These difference can also be a source of complacency and serve to hold you back from new heights, challenges and experiences.
You don't want to rush out and establish new friends too quickly. Rather, I would suggest that you explore the things that interest you and you will find others that have these goals in common with you.
Think of this as a dry run for something that will repeat again in senior school, again at college and university and again when you begin work.
Along the way, the people that are special to you and worth maintaining a relationship with will be self evident, just listen to your heart.
It is a chance to start clean, and be true to your nature, and not the the behaviours/goals that regulated from peer group expectations of what is cool or normal.
It can be scary to trust your true nature. In the end, these people are usually the most happy and successful in life.
2006-08-27 07:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by pheelingud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. When I went to high school none of my friends were going to the same one, and I undertand the added pressure of a new school and not having friends to be there with you. Middle school is not hard to adjust to, and everyone is new to the school so they're as worried as ou are! You can keep in touch with your friends by hanging out on weekends, phone calls, and there's probably more to talk about now that you have different experiences at middle school. You'll make new frieds in middle school, so trust me you won't be alone.
2006-08-27 07:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Cobweb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats very normal. evrybody has to go thru that stage. When i started middle school, i had friends that i knew so it was a little easier. But, the friends that i talk to today are the friends that i met in middle school. Dont worry about it, it's always nice to meet new people anyway. Dont rush it, it will come along. I start college in about a week or so and I don't know ANYONE there. i am a little nervous, but i'm sure that i will meet someone along the way. Take chances....go and introduce yourself to someone new.
2006-08-27 07:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to be alone I guarantee that... most of all you "will" make friends, I think they are called "new acqaintances".... So just get up from the first day of school with God in your heart and confidence and a smile on your face...and you will attrack so many bees (friends) that you wont have care in the world..
Just be yourself..join some school activities and pay attention to your teachers and mind your P's and Q's and it will all fall into place ok..God Bless..
2006-08-27 07:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by ck1_content 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I remember those days. I'm ging to be a Senior in Highschool this year, and take it from me:
The friends you knew in grade school are cool, but they tend to drift away from you, and you'll make new friend in Middle School. After that, you'll meet kids in highschool that you will feel you've known forever, and you'll think back to your grade school friends and realize you hardly kept any of them! I still hang out with two of my grade school friends every week, and am going to college next year with a guy I've known since 1st grade.
Keep old friends close, but keep your heart open to new ones as well.
2006-08-27 07:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce yourself to people sitting around you; join clubs or sports; smile!
middle school's a rough time but it can also be a great time of learning and building amazing friendships. you don't have to be outgoing or try to be someone you're not to fit in and have friends- be yourself and be friendly- you'll do great!
2006-08-27 07:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by Betsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd understand if it was high school!! middle schoolers are still practically babies!! all of the kids are scared!! i had to go to a totally different school in 7th grade and 9th grade!! there are people like u!
2006-08-27 07:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If you are scared it is ok, you will make new friends and trust me its more homework but its fun, take it from me i survived and im in 8th grade now. Just keep you head high and have fun.
2006-08-27 07:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by Bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the only one from my whole school to go to my secondary school. don't worry about it. you'll see in about 2 days who you're friends are going to be.
2006-08-27 07:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋