I caught him looking at me many times. When I look up he looks away. He always sits by me...he asked me out with his coworkers and paid for my food. His friends said he always talks about me. He asked questions about where I grew up, my family, if I'd been married. He asked me if I had a boyfriend. Then he confused me because I never gave him any indication that I was interested but he said he was a free spirit and but we could be friends. I couldn't tell if he was joking but I took it as he meant what he said. Later in the week he called and I asked him questions about his life. Instead of describing a free spirit when I asked he talked about his past releationships and said he was looking to settle down. We talked for 3 hours. He paused for a while then told me I was very very pretty and I could have any guy I wanted - Before thinking, I told him I wasn't looking for a guy because I just ended a relationship. I really like him but I'm not sure if he was interested in me...
2006-08-27 05:47:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chances are he's interested.... But what's the point in him continuing to pursue you? You've already told him you just ended a relationship, and you're not looking for a guy? This happens so many time when women send "the wrong" message. Yes, you said you weren't looking, but I'm sure that didn't mean you were not interested... Though it does in fact give that impression by saying that. Go for it - if YOU are interested.... It's not too late for YOU to make a move.
2006-08-27 05:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE he's interested. No guy talks to a girl for three hours when he's not interested. How interested? Well, you'll just have to wait to find out won't you? That's what dating and getting to know one another is all about. Just be cool and keep doing what you've been doing. Quick or instant gratification just don't go logically in the same sentence.
2006-08-27 13:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decision is yours to make as to start off as friends and see were it can lead. Since you just ended a relationship and you are dealing with it, you will want to have some quality time for your self and may be with those that you can confine in.
The trick is not scaring him off or causing him to feel that you are not interested. So far you seem to have your doubts about him which is natural in the start of any relationship.
What you will do is to take things one day at a time and don't rush into things and listen to your gut feelings, which will alert you of Red Flags unfolding. Use your head and not your heart in making decisions that serve to protect your feelings from hurt.
2006-08-27 13:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you be sure if you've not explored the options available yet. Give it time, it would definitely reveal itself. These whole thing follows a natural order, if you try to force it, you'll only cause complications to develop, thereby crippling any chance you might have at a great relationship.
Life is a sea of Chances, if you don't give urself that chance, you might not get that opportunity.
Remember, the closing of one door is an indication that another door needs to be opened.
2006-08-27 12:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by CPR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's interested in you, but not even we can tell you what he wants. He might be looking for a conquest or for a wife. We can't tell. Make your bet, toss your dice. Good luck.
2006-08-27 12:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by David S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is interested in you go tell him you like him also ASAP if you want to date him before someone else grabs him up
2006-08-27 12:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is interested in u but he is afraid of something.
I guess u should make him trust u if u r interested in him too.
2006-08-27 12:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by dr_merobedro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But he IS interested. His being too tentative might be out of fear of rejection (from you). Give it time.
2006-08-27 12:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's interested in you
2006-08-27 12:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by pwoodrow2354 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a good time together just run with it for a while and see what happens
2006-08-27 12:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by slip-slappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋