They cheat on you repeatedly and if you leave, they will "break their necks" to keep you from leaving or try to win you over.
I just want an honest opinion from a male's perspective.
I've been there, done that and I'm not going back to that situation ever again.
2006-08-27 05:18:46 · 21 answers · asked by Mary C 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they want to have their cake and eat it.
2006-08-27 05:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im not a man, but I believe the reason why guys like that want you back after they do you wrong could be one of two reasons:
1. The age old saying "you never know what you had untill its gone". This man probably did have some love for you, and took you for granted. When you basically said you weren't having his bullsh*t anymore for REAL, he panicked and wanted you back.
2. He just got used to you. He got used to having his cake and eating it too and he wants you back so he can do it all over again.
Either way it goes, its usually best to steer clear from this type of guy (as you now seem to know!), especially if he cheated more than once. Like they say, once a cheater always a cheater!
2006-08-27 05:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by CHLOE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im married and never have or would cheat ,,, so in reference to your question,, you either are one heck of a woman to this man who has obviously chosen to play the field (so to say) , but obviously has no clue what he wants,,, men who are in that situation usually choose to have a variety of different women in order to see different characteristics in their women,, but in turn the reason these men try to keep you or a woman in that type of situation is because they have found you to be the best of the bunch, but not fully fulfilling,, thus you may be the best friend, or maybe the best in bed , but probably not all theyre looking for, because most likely their other choices arent worth a da** and have no potential for anything. theres an honest opinion from a man who has been down the road to choose earlier in life, an has chosen,, but remember im still a man and know how men think in this type of situation!!!
2006-08-27 05:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by John C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a better brand of man. We don 't all cheat. And, don't give cheaters a second chance. serious romance isn't a smorgasbord. you don't take a sample of everything when you have already ordered. You will get the runs if you eat too much junk instead of eating your veggies
2006-08-27 05:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by Media Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, I think men cheat not expecting you to still be with him...hence, not telling you they cheated for months or until you find out.
2006-08-27 05:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"it didn't mean anything" "it was just sex"
However, the fact that it didn't mean anything for them to sleep with someone else while they are supposed to be committed to you means ALOT to YOU.
I have a theory that if we stop tolerating their bad behavior, they will change. Read the Lysistrata and let the revolution begin!!
2006-08-27 05:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by starspangledgirl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for begginners not all men cheat.
it sounds like u have been hurt and r now lashing out at men in general. like i said not all men cheat but then again do u think all women cheat.?
2006-08-27 05:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by mark d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not a man but sometimes maybe they think that because alot of the men are the same us women will forgive them because they are just "men" and its what they do and we should forgive them cos most men do it. i say they want to have their cake and eat it too
2006-08-27 05:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by brandy w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got cheated on becuase your not good enough apparently, perhaps it has something to do with you being a generalizing sexist SOB.....perhaps not.
2006-08-27 05:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men are complete selfish, idiotic, unsensitive, uncompromising dumb azzez! Thank God I found that last good one.
2006-08-27 05:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋