2006-08-27 04:57:47 · 29 answers · asked by smalldream_yf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm only out-going and feel natural with my girlfriends. but when guys are around, i quieten down rather unconsciously. i'm not sure what to do to voice out.
2006-08-27 05:11:23 · update #1
Who cares about your weight? As long as your happy with yourself, then screw what anyone else thinks. You'll find someone to like you for you, no matter what you look like on the outside.
2006-08-27 05:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by geminiblue26 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not compund your sorrow with saying you're ugly, fat, stupid, stink , etc. If you don't get asked out for date, it might be because guys see you lack self-confidence. Presentation of one's self is what is most attractive. Despite what you think, you can meet someone who likes you for who and what your are and find that attractive. Try being more outgoing and assertive. You may need to dress more up to date, get a new hairstyle and exude more self assuredness. Not that these are requirements, but may make you feel better on the inside which encourages change on the outside. However, don't go overboard and become slutty.
2006-08-27 12:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by hellokittyt012263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be a little chubby but their are a lot of men who like woman that way. Just give it time, the right person will come along. Also it is hard to answer too because you don't show a picture. Can't see you!!! Are you shy? Do you ever try to strike up a conversation first? Maybe you are just sitting back waiting to be noticed. You need to find something to occupy your time. Get dressed in something popular and go to the mall or game place. Place where people your age hang-out.
2006-08-27 12:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by kayjoe25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you act fat ...Project beauty and confidence,you are thick not fat if you carry it right.To be beautiful honey act beautiful.Think fat and the world sees fat. Are you pretty ? are you fun to be around ,are you nice to people .so many factors beside a few extra pounds.
I'm 5`4 and weigh 120 I don't feel over weight.
2006-08-27 12:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop coming down on yourself. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Your thick but not fat. Get a self esteem check.
2006-08-27 12:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is fat? There is still life in you. Man or woman they are still human. Be yourself. Or maybe go on a diet and then you will feel more confident. Find someone thin and get the support from him or her.
2006-08-27 18:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really doubt that that is the reason. Anyone who is worth your attention should definitely not judge you by your weight, anyway, so it doesn't matter... maybe you're sending people the wrong signals, or your guy friends just don't want to risk ruining your friendship. If you really want this, then try to make sure you're sending the right message, or even just ask someone out, yourself!
2006-08-27 12:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOO you're not fat , you just have some extra pounds to lose and you'le be perfect , that's to answer your question
advice : dont ever think that you're FAT , your heart is not and so as your soul , im sure you're pretty and many men will want you , just give yourself time
good luck girl
2006-08-27 12:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not fat, and depending on your bone structure, you may be just fine how you are. Find stuff that make you feel good about yourself and do that. I find that when I am not thinking about guys or dating, they approach me. They aren't always what I'm looking for, but that's OK. Do your own thing and learn to be your own person. :)
2006-08-27 12:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by starspangledgirl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 5'3" and I weigh 139lbs. I am not overweight, but close to it. For your height you should be about at the ight weight. I can't tell if you are large or not because you are standing infront of me, but 150lbs doesn't sound fat. If you are worried you may be overweight you can go here: http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm
I actually went there for you and you are just overweight, but nothing to worry about. From the sounds of it you aren't fat.
Good Luck!
2006-08-27 12:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by um yea hi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO ur not to fat, thats the exact height and weight as me and I used to get asked out ALL the time b4 i got married. maybe u should find someone u like and ask them if they would like to go out with u .
2006-08-27 12:02:01 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋