Broken heart from a cheating girlfriend, what do I do?

Question

She doesn't know that I know she cheated on me. She tells her friends that she's single, but when around me, she says we're together. So basically she's fu*%en me up with mind games. Whenever we argue, she gets mad & calls it off, but when calm, she says we're together. I feel that she is stringing along b/c she doesnt know how to really break it down to me. She can only break it down when she's mad, which hurts like crazy,, but when she calm, she doesnt apologize or take back what she says, but instead keeps claiming that I'm her boyfriend. I've played this off for 2 months because I still care about her, and I still love her, and I know I shouldn't love her for doing me wrong. The thing that bothers me the most, even though now we're not together, is that she still doesnt know that I know she cheated on me, and she still calls me everday & its getting to a point of conclusion where I just want to end the friendship b/c she hasn't confess yet. What should I do? How should I go about?

Answer 1

You need to move on. Find a girl you can trust.

Answer 2

Tell her the next time that she calls that your done with her games and that she needs to go back for her little romp with what his face and that your going to move on. Have a nice life. You don't need her little self controlling a** and you need to be a man and let her know it, even if it hurts her poor little feelings. But if it makes it easier then just ignore her and her calls period. I think that you will find out it wont bother her at all except maybe hurt her useless pride abit

Answer 3

Man that sucks. Tell her straight out that you know about her cheating and that you would prefer to never speak again. Be extremely clear that you don't want phone calls, or any sort of contact and that you just want her out of your life so you can mive on. Good luck man, been there done that myself.

Answer 4

Tell her you know, and say it's over. Leave her. Why care about somebody if they are unfaithful and make you sad? In my opinion, she is making you a fool with her looks and is manipulating you and it is making you miserable. Kick her to the curb and spend some time with yourself. Forget she existed, since she really does not care about you if she is cheating.,

Answer 5

Tell her that you have to talk. Very seriously. Let her know that if she lies to you once it will be very bad , so bad your friendship will be over. Ask her straight out to her face , did u cheat on me with .... If she says no. then ditch her as she will lie about everything to you. DOnt play yourself and care how she feels. Care how YOU feel. pooh on her thats what she deserves.

Answer 6

Just be honest with her and straight, tell her that you dont trust her and you're not good enough for her that she says that she is "single" when you're not with her which means .. You mean nothing to her.. Break up with her easily and dont let her treat you like a game.

Answer 7

You are addicted to this person. It doesn't matter obviously that she sh-ts all over you, you continue to look for someone to tell you it's ok to be sh-t on. Get rid of the bit-ch and move on. Oh yes, and go to a professional counselor who can help you figure out why you pick these kind of women...........

Answer 8

Drop her like a hot potato NOW! She could ruin your next year or the rest of your life.

Answer 9

if she cheated she did not care bout you so just get youself together and dont get a new girl because you wouldnt really like her she just be a time waister and that would hurt her

Answer 10

What do you want? What is your goal?

I say, dump her, but never say it's because of the cheating. Tell her it is because you don't think she's pretty enough for you.