I live with my sisters and i gto to take care of them and its stressing at times. My mom lives in a different country and is unable to take them right now. My dad is here but we all girl and he cant do some of the things my mom can. I'm 19 i think i'm too young for this. I need advice. thanks
2006-08-27 04:49:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Life is so complicated if we are keep on comparing our life with other w/c they have a normal family set-up. Being an elder or a responsible family member don't regret for what are you do to your family. help your parent especially she has to go away for maybe financial reason. You have to be strong and focus for your family. never the less don't forget about yourself also. Give time for yourself. If your dad cant perform the task as your mom did. Just ask him to help you around the house.Most of all pray for God's guidance.
2006-08-27 05:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same exact problem, excpet im 15, and my parents are always working and i have 2 little sisters ages 2 and 4, so its really hard. What i do is I put them for a nap and while they are both napping (making sure they dont fall off the bed or anything) i pamper my self completely. I take nice long bubble baths, or i just sit and give my self a manicure or pedicure and listen to my favorite type of music, it really helps!!!! good luck
2006-08-27 04:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Taisha B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what ur too young for that , i dont think so cause ur immature did u know girls are more matured than guys, cause girls are capable of responsibility than us guys so what will happen if u get married and have kids or a baby of ur own okay. ur 19 you should start to learn being like ur mom. someday as i said u will have a family of ur own okay or maybe i think ur mom spoiled u too much that u dont know how to take care of ur little sister okay.
2006-08-27 06:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lot to put on someone. be strong you're almost through it. Talk to your dad, about it. Also start to teach your sister some of the chores. If they each did one things would be easier, I think.
Todi, the Bible NEVER said that. It says their is a way through you troubles, not that they will go away. It is well meaning people like you that scare people away from following Jesus. Please read what it says, and not what you want it to say.
2006-08-27 05:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dats very gud dat u r so concerned bout ur family & take care of dem & i don't think so dat u should fel stressful if u r doing it,ya 4 relaxing u can do meditation,exercise,go 4 party once in a while it will really help u.
2006-08-27 05:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your Dad that just because he is a guy, does not take away his responsibility to take car of his children, including you. Then you can go take up golf, fishing, or read a book.
2006-08-27 05:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by detecting_it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make ur every step clear & forward life become easy.if u want to be relax as u r 19 try some sex its fine for u or if u dont want then take massage or do some yoga or try to make ur sister to be sincere &mature thats it
2006-08-27 04:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by bonney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered living independently, away from home? You are of age. And it would give you another aspect of life's responsibilities.
2006-08-27 05:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take one step at a time. It will be ok. I know how your feeling ,but I just let God himself take over my problems. God has reasons for everything!
2006-08-27 04:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by Amy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust the Lord with all your heart .. he will Care for u
2006-08-27 04:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by Eby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋